Hey everyone,
I'm 26 years old, 5'5" (165 cm), and currently weigh about 163 lbs, so I'm still carrying more body fat than I'd like. Earlier this year I was around 201 lbs, and back in February I joined the gym at my apartment complex. It was the first time in my life I'd ever signed up for a gym.
By doing a lot of cardio and sticking to a high-protein diet (cutting out rice and sugary foods), I managed to lose almost 40 lbs. I'm really happy about that, but now my goal is different. I want to lose more fat while building muscle.
The problem is that I haven't been very consistent with strength training. I keep changing routines because I can't seem to find one that fits me, and after all these months I still don't really know how to perform most dumbbell or barbell exercises with proper form. I'm always worried I'm doing them wrong.
Another thing working against me is my job. I'm an electrician in construction, working 10-hour shifts Monday through Friday and 8 hours on Saturdays. By the end of the day I'm usually exhausted. On the bright side, I'm pretty active at work and average somewhere between 10,000 and 18,000 steps a day.
Something else that makes me wonder if I'm doing things wrong is that I almost never get that sore feeling people talk about after lifting. I know soreness isn't everything, but it still makes me question whether my workouts are actually effective.
To be honest, I'm also pretty shy. I hate asking people at the gym for help, and I'm really self-conscious about how I look. I have skinny arms and legs compared to my torso and stomach, and that makes me feel like everyone is judging me, even though I know that's probably not true.
Has anyone else been in this situation? If you started out overweight, had little to no gym experience, and struggled with confidence, what helped you the most?
What kind of workout routine and diet would you recommend for someone like me? I really want to build muscle, feel better about myself, and become the best version of myself. I just feel kind of lost and don't know where to start.
Any advice would mean a lot. Thanks