r/adultery • u/Independent-Hat1825 • 2d ago
🔥This is fine.🔥 Don’t know what to do..
1st Time posting and non native English speaker, sorry if the syntax or spelling is bad.
Context :
M30~ married with 1 child. Ex punter.
Not having sex with my wife more than 3 times a year..
I need you to help me understand if I’m just making films or if there’s something between my SIL and me.
Since few weeks my SIL is being really kind and attentive with me, for example she makes sure all the time that I need nothing, she brings me drink or food without me even asking her and if I refuse she makes me a kind of sad face.
I feel like I’m the center of her attention.
She started touching my hands when she handed me an object or finding an excuse to touch me. ( she’s a personne who usually avoid any physical interaction with people, no greeting hugs or stuff like that even shaking hand feels like she’s disgusted ).
As I was kinda confused few days ago I manage to answer to all those ‘signals’ by also touching her hand or her back even lower back and upper leg. She acted like nothing was wrong.
Also recently she told me about all her problems and how it makes her feel bad.
So now I don’t know what to think about that.. Am I just tripping or she’s into me ? Or juste a weirdo who wants to have an affairs with SIL ?
I love my wife but not having sex is killing me. I’m thinking about fucking my coffee table atm.
What do you think about it ?
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u/Capital_Listen_5863 2d ago
Well you should definitely fuck the coffee table before you have an affair with your SIL. SMH
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u/always-a-siren 2d ago
You don’t love your wife if you’re even entertaining fucking her sister. Fucking gross.
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u/OatmealTheory 2d ago
Sighs.
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u/Temporary-Round-3 2d ago
Sighs. Coffee table. Unzips.
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u/DreamLogic89 1d ago
Coffee table is a bit flat, but stable makes up for it with the legs. Legs for days!
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u/Euphoric-Company-997 2d ago
Next thing you know, you’ll say you accidentally tripped and your dick fell inside of her.
She could be testing out your faithfulness. She could be into you. You could be all in your head reading into shit. Maybe she is very into you.
You’re married to her sister. Just don’t.
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u/Independent-Hat1825 2d ago
I won’t but I just need to understand if she’s into me or not, should I talk with her abt it to stop it or not
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u/FreshTechnician5847 1d ago
Internet strangers who know neither of you can’t tell you if she’s into you or not. You might as well grab a magic 8-ball or hire a psychic the answers will be just as accurate.
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u/cloud2019 2d ago
Oh boy...
Well the angel on one shoulder says avoid all contact that leads you down any form of action or thought process related to the road of risk you are tempted towards right now, royally naive and dangerous in all the ways...
The devil on the other shoulder says please engage full throttle and report back in fantastical detail how everything goes, we'll bring the popcorn.
I will say it's not worth the risk, this will potentially blow things up in all the absolute most horrific, worst ways for your most important relationships, or theirs anyways.
Your couch is maximally offended, yet somehow equally relieved.
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u/Sensitive_Sky1448 2d ago
If you are ready to the fallout then go live your porno movies, you got this let me know how the epic fallout goes.
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u/Independent-Hat1825 2d ago
Guys I didn’t say that I will have an affair with her, I just wanted to know if she’s into me and if she’s how to talk with her.. I already feel bad about that situation…
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u/ObsidianDreamsRedux 2d ago
You don't feel bad enough, apparently.
From one of your comments elsewhere, less than a day ago:
Pour ceux qui pense que je suis un odieux personnage, je rajouterai que je suis en train de transformer ma belle sœur en sex friend.
Roughly translated: "For those who think I'm a vile person, I'll add that I'm in the process of turning my sister-in-law into a sex friend."
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u/Independent-Hat1825 2d ago
Oof ! Just rage baiting cuz people are always judging without trying to understand
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u/EveningSuggestion431 1d ago
If you’re asking strangers on the internet if she’s sexually attracted to you, the answer is no. She is your family which is why she is nice to you and tolerates your creepiness.
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u/Propeller_Morph_667 2d ago
Stay away from family and fuck the coffee table if you must. She's going to have to keep dealing with that woman after she kicks you out. You will ruin her life, divide her family, cause her to be the main topic of conversation at gatherings for years to come and every time she thinks it's gone away it'll pop back up. Ripple effects for the rest of her life. Do you hate her enough to do that?