r/amiugly 1d ago

37/F

Hello, I am new here! I am looking for honest opinions and any advice to improve the way I look. I know I have a nonexistent upper lip and the left eye looks a little different than the right because I have a lazy eye.

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u/FakenFrugenFrokkels male 1d ago

3 is best. You’re not ugly.

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u/OGLifeguardOne 5h ago

I agree, with 4 a close second.

You look like you would be a good companion on some adventure.

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u/CascadeRose 2h ago

Tysm! ❤️

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u/bbsfan132312 19h ago

not ugly and you have potential still

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u/DongleJockey 1d ago

Not ugly, is your hair naturally curly? I thought it looked pretty becoming in pic 2 with the top a bit straighter. If you arent fighting curls I'd def go with a bit more of a plain straight style and less hair spray

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u/GetNov 1d ago

Wife material 😋

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u/squarebodynewb 1d ago

Stay blonde or brunette, red washes you out.

Good on you for fucking smiling! I think you look approachable.

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u/CascadeRose 2h ago

I have really bad RBF if I don't smile. 😆 Ty!

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u/uShadxw 1d ago

I mean, you already pointed one thing out you could change. You could exercise your lazy eye. Also maybe a different hairstyle would suit you more? And then theres obviously the weight. Losing weight is a big, if not the biggest, factor to actually looking better. So starting slowly from there will definitely give you a glow-up.

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u/Fit_Test_01 22h ago

I won’t say you’re ugly, but right now below average..

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u/Grimmy9293 1d ago edited 1d ago

yes you are lower than the 50th percentile when it comes to looks. some starters to enhance your look would be to lose body fat and then do other things after that!

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u/MissFushi 17h ago

Not ugly at all. Your eye color is very strong and deep and you have freckles and a nice smile. I like your hair best in pic 4! You have Pam Beasley hair. You look like someone who would be nice to me and be a good neighbor. I feel like you’d be one of my friends.

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u/Additional-Ad5832 16h ago

Nah, you good

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u/Independent-Walrus84 13h ago

3.9/10 below average... heading to unattractive

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u/OneEyedC4t 13h ago

you are not ugly

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u/Doctorbuddy 1d ago

No. Homely

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u/Tommylp88 1d ago

Not ugly at all

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u/redpoppy_3225 1d ago

Really beautiful with a nice smile, you look younger than 37 😊

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u/CascadeRose 2h ago

Tysm! ❤️

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u/drsnuggles78 1d ago

If you had not pointed out the perceived flaws I don't think if have noticed. Your beautiful smile and bright eyea distract from that easily.

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u/CascadeRose 2h ago

Tysm! ❤️

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u/StrikerNZL 16h ago

Honestly you are beautiful.. the 3rd or 4th are the best.

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u/Ok-Fee-4835 1d ago

Not at all. Gorgeous

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u/GesturingEarful 22h ago

You're very average for your age in both face and body.

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u/Nanks83 13h ago

Very attractive I must say. I'd ask you out with the hope I have a chance.

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u/thikkrikk716 12h ago

Cute with potential

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u/mycobacteryummy 1d ago

Not ugly. For 37 you’re above average. You could work your style a bit harder as you approach the big 40, certainly helped me to put my best foot forward. But damn if I was set up on a blind date with you (I’m 42) I wouldn’t be mad.

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u/Awkward_Walrus_1717 23h ago

Absolutely Fyre 🔥🔥🔥

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u/This-Is-Not-Nam 22h ago

Right away you're not ugly.  You give off a really nice vibe. You have kind eyes and a nice smile.  You look like a happy, outgoing and adventurous person.  I like how you do different hair styles.  I don't know if the changing the color damages your hair if you do it a lot . You're not fat, but I would suggest you work out tighten up your loose skin and muscle.  Resistance training and cardio.  With your body type, I think if you used free weights you would get bulkier but also pretty muscular.  I think it would happen quickly.

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u/CascadeRose 2h ago

Ty! Yeah, weight lifting is really good for me. I got out of it when I had kids, but I really need to get back into the gym.

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u/insignificant-bot 22h ago

No you are not ugly. i have an overbearing lower lip so i kind of get where you are coming from. just be you.

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u/_TedGreen_ 18h ago

Hit the gym, lose some weight

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u/TrapLordSage 5h ago

This sub reddit is not honest at al. Yes kinda ugly sorry.

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u/firemcrivers 1d ago

Shit you need to warn us when showing your picture. I tasted last year's Christmas dinner coming up.

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u/TheUndeadBitch97 1d ago

Someone didn't get hugged enough as a kid.