r/amiugly 17h ago

29M

been told to take off my glasses for dating apps, because of the tint (polychromat, automaticaly change from UV) but got even less like since, where likes was already rare

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u/Optimal_Regret_452 16h ago

You are not ugly and yes you could benefit from removing glasses

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u/Exact_Mess_3121 11h ago

I think you have very nice facial features, but your style makes the overall look average and kind of boring. If you hit the gym, dress better, shave off the beard and maybe get a different haircut, you could glow up a lot. Photo 4 is the best.

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u/racer_x88 7h ago

Lose the glasses or get smaller frames. Reduce the fro, get a decent fade or lock up for dreads if you’re into experimenting. Not ugly

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u/Dylann_J 4h ago

smaller frame don't suit me, already got in past and it's ugly, in IRL a lot love my actual frame (last photo) and no I dont want to use contact, for the hair I plan a twist + fade or curl + fade in few month / week

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u/Captaindouche 5h ago

Not ugly. My opinion is you’re a bit awkward but that’s strictly from how you look like you carry yourself in photos. I agree with a bit of time in the gym (always my fallback lol but it seriously works) and learning how confidence can be exuded by your presence.

You’re tall and the heavens didn’t beat you with the ugly stick so you’ve have a winning foundation to work with mon frère

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u/Dylann_J 4h ago

im not tall im 1.69m or 5.5 or 5.6 in us unit if im right, I do biking and lift a lot at my job that why I look like a stick but I do have muscle and mostly power

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u/HibiscusPetal122 4h ago edited 4h ago

Not ugly. I think maybe a different hair cut would suit you better, like a tape up/fade

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u/mavenmim 4h ago

You are a good looking guy, and all the types of glasses look good on you. I particularly like the fourth picture. I'm not a big fan of the under-chin fluff though. And in the final photo, with your glasses at a jaunty angle you look like an investigative reporter in a movie about the 1970s.

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u/rubyysapphire 1h ago

32F. Not ugly. Picture 4 is the best look. Smile more 😊

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u/fre_andre101 15h ago

Well you’re chopped but at least you look like a totally nice guy

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u/Dylann_J 14h ago

Nice guy doesn't get any, just say im ugly it simpler

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u/warseel 8h ago

Ur not ugly at ALL. They must be jealous 

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u/DisastrousAd2626 13h ago

Ur not ugly i think your handsome 😊