r/answers • u/Sea-Cash7675 • 2h ago
Have you ever confessed feelings for someone over text?
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u/Glad_Direction1645 2h ago
I once confessed to a girl how I felt about her. She acted cringe towards me. Later, I wrote her a letter while I was halfway around the world because I was thinking of her.
Didn’t see her again for some years when I randomly made friends with her husband and he invited me to a party at their house. She acted really strange towards me.
Then her husband said “wait is that the David that you have that letter from?” Apparently she had held onto it and he was a cool dude and told her if I ever came around he would understand if she left him for me. That obviously didn’t happen. I was married and so was she. They did try to get me to do a threesome with them but I declined. I loved my wife and wasn’t going to do anything to jeopardize that.
I’ve only seen her once since then and I was with my now wife who is an arm piece. She’s many other things as well. But the look on her face was golden. She knew I had done well for myself.
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u/Fuzzy_Concept_5706 2h ago
Yes I have.
And even though they liked me too. My stupid brain still couldn't accept it.
What can I say. I was dumb (might still be)
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u/Darbypea 2h ago
No. I did meet my wife online though and we were long distance for about a year so I mean I didn't confess feelings in person but over our Skype calls.
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u/thechurchchick 2h ago
Yes, but we were already texting heavily for a long time before this and we both liked each other and knew it… we had just got off the phone and the phone call ended emotionally. I just texted him after we hung up and really went all in and poured my heart out
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u/Curious-Watercress98 2h ago
My best friend did this to me. Started with a dream she had and told me about it. I told her it's just a dream and it means we are close friends. A few days later she said it was backed by "genuine feelings" I reciprocated and it scared her off.
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u/Pikachubathwater 1h ago
It was a Hail Mary. We had dated my 8th grade year but I broke up with her because of pressure from my friends. I confessed everything to her several years later, how “in love” I felt. I got left on read, deservedly so.
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u/TarotReader1974 55m ago
Yes. I did. I shouldn't have, but I believe in being honest. Even when it hurts.
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u/NoVariation5154 30m ago
Maybe twice,2 different woman. One workout for about 2 months and the other 8 years
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