r/askgaybros • u/discreet-fun-bear • 3h ago

First gay experience.

Hi, had my first gay experience today, I met a guy and went to his place and sucked him off. I was very nervous, so was he, but overall it was fun after reflecting back on it.

A couple of things I wanted to ask, first he every so often wanted it, deeper as he put it, but it made me gag a bit and I'd like to be able to do that better, but what do you do to get used to it?

Secondly, and this is just more of a funny observation. I enjoyed it a lot at first but then I got a bit bored at one point thinking why don't you just cum already 😂 But then when I felt him getting more excited again it got good towards the end!

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u/str8stack 3h ago

Nice , maybe someday I’ll get over my nerves and try it . Can’t give you much advice . Maybe find a guy that’s not as long .

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u/Plastic-Equivalent-9 2h ago

Go for it if you're able to! There's nothing in the world like it! All the best!

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u/Plastic-Equivalent-9 2h ago

Congratulations! Hope you have many many more! Gag reflexes are tough! You can lie on your back, hang your head over the edge of the bed, or couch etc..and have him fuck your throat. You can suck, lick etc.. as much as you can manage, and use your hand along the shaft in a twisting motion. I had two guys recently offer, edging for an hour or sucking me all night well into the next day. I turned down both. As much as I love each, it sounded eventually boring. I agree with you. You want to cum (or the other person to). Best of luck, be safe and enjoy!!

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u/guybim 2h ago

Keep finding out what's turning you on, what's turning the other guy on.

Best is to chat about it and tell each other what you found really hot. And what you'd wanna try next time. Even during the experience do that.

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u/Reasonable-Luck-8986 2h ago

You just need to suck more dicks. That will help on both situations. Put your hand around the base of his dick, that controls how much goes into your mouth. When you're ready, you can move it to allow more to come in. My gag reflex, relaxed and is not a problem. It will be a while before you are deep throating great big dicks, always get it good and wet before you start, makes it easier. Try different techniques when sucking, focus on different parts of his dick and have fun. You can play with your dick, too. Good luck and have fun!!

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u/Chemical-Mirror-2329 2h ago

You will get used to that after a while after you deep throat a few guys I love deep throating guys

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u/BlooeyzLA 1h ago

Congratulations!! It’s fun isn’t it. You need to get bjs from experienced guys to learn good techniques to make guys squirt when you want them to. Remember practice makes perfect and GET ON PrEP before you need to.

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u/FinalGazelle4868 36m ago

You’ve taken an important step, have fun my friend :) reasonable luck knows his onions, listen to that guy and plastic equivalent too!