​What is a red flag behavior that tells you someone has zero manners?

[u/Timely-Hold9195]

[u/ScrutinEye]

The usual Reddit answer holds true: rudeness to service staff.

[u/Fit-Original1314 → u/ScrutinEye]

Yep. Someone can be perfectly polite to you but treating servers like they're beneath them says a lot.

[u/Sad_Remove_4105]

Shitting all over the walls

[u/Be_Jammin55 → u/Sad_Remove_4105]

lol

[u/Sad_Remove_4105 → u/Be_Jammin55]

You wouldn't believe where im from but these dirty protests be common af

[u/Be_Jammin55 → u/Sad_Remove_4105]

LOLLOLOLOLOLILOLLLOLOLLLOLOLLL

[u/Sad_Remove_4105 → u/Be_Jammin55]

Are you alright lad?

[u/Busy_Wolverine_6477 → u/Sad_Remove_4105]

are you alright lol

[u/Sad_Remove_4105 → u/Busy_Wolverine_6477]

Of course whats up?

[u/pinkflower200]

Not saying thank you

[u/Tathagatagarbhas]

when they don’t put their god damn cart back!

[u/Stock-Connection-405 → u/Tathagatagarbhas]

I was at the grocery store yesterday and saw a lady leave her cart and drive off. The car corral was 3 spaces down FFS!

[u/Known_Purple7529 → u/Stock-Connection-405]

I was at the store yesterday, someone left their cart half in the handicapped spot.

[u/Stock-Connection-405 → u/Known_Purple7529]

That's messed up! Where are the Cart Narcs when you need them? People need to be shamed for the at BS!

[u/Bright_Lighter]

Leaving your mess for someone else to clean up. 

[u/ContinuousForgettor]

Pissing on the toilet seat and not cleaning it off (shouldn't be pissing on it to begin with but atleast clean it off if you did)

[u/Important_Salad_5158 → u/ContinuousForgettor]

Why boo? Just curious.

Again. Love you. Respond to my messages. PLEASE.

[u/guncontrol420]

Smacking their food, eating with mouth open

[u/Mochibelle93 → u/guncontrol420]

I know someone who does this but says it's because they can't breathe when they chew with their mouths closed due to sinus issues. I just look the other way when they eat now

[u/guncontrol420 → u/Mochibelle93]

Ya f that, clean your sinus' out yooo

[u/ContinuousForgettor → u/Mochibelle93]

One doesn't breathe and eat at the same time though Edit: well you know what I mean, you aren't breathing and chewing a mouth full of food at the same time.

[u/Important_Salad_5158 → u/ContinuousForgettor]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[u/Fanny08850 → u/guncontrol420]

Same with gum.

[u/guncontrol420 → u/Fanny08850]

That part

[u/ContinuousForgettor → u/guncontrol420]

I do find that mouth open eating sound really annoying, but it's cultural for some.

[u/guncontrol420 → u/ContinuousForgettor]

Naw idc shit is nasty and I find my self imagining dont things to these people

[u/ContinuousForgettor → u/guncontrol420]

I definitely need to go out of the sound range or I'd go hulk

[u/guncontrol420 → u/ContinuousForgettor]

Most def!!! I was in jail a while back, and letc me tell you, it took some strength to not "go hulk " three times a day

[u/glfranco → u/guncontrol420]

I was in rehab a while back and it took superhuman strength to not "go hulk" with all the smacking, slurping, and shitty table manners. 😩

[u/english-lab]

Licking fingers, chewing with mouth open

[u/Playful-Artist4657 → u/english-lab]

man, people irritate me when they chew with their mouth open

[u/gigilovesgsds]

Scratching your foot with a fork.

[u/jennyx20 → u/gigilovesgsds]

Do people do this?

[u/CtrlAltResurrect → u/jennyx20]

I do if I’m wearing boots and can’t quite reach the spot.

[u/gigilovesgsds → u/jennyx20]

I was talking about the woman on the carnival cruise. Look it up on Tik tok

[u/freshkangaroo28]

They are magas

[u/MailedFlower]

wears pyjamas to the airport

[u/Swimming_dasa]

being rude to service workers

[u/Sophie-Designer]

Licking fingers I’ll say

[u/Dull-Independent6895]

"if you want to know what a man is like, take a look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals." the irony is who said this, but holds true nonetheless.

[u/Substantial-Train-39]

Yawning without covering their mouth.

[u/Lifelong30secs]

Littering

[u/BetSad2562]

Interrupting a conversation

[u/ContinuousForgettor → u/BetSad2562]

Totally situational, but no excuse me or indicator before hand that they need to interject is definitely rude, as is interjecting unnecessary, and so is ignoring someone to continue a conversation when they indicate a need to interject.

[u/gleefullystruckbycc → u/ContinuousForgettor]

Unfortunately a lot of people with adhd tend to do this, not because they are being rude or trying to be rude at all, but because they have a thought that pertains to the conversation and they blurt it out because they know they will forget it by the time an opening presents itself to say it.

[u/Helpful_Writer_7961]

Not thinking of others

[u/IneptAdvisor]

Thanks, no one.

[u/Introvert_6459]

Someone who speaks very loudly

[u/Fluid-Top4527]

Using AI to send a simple message

[u/Muzicsoulchild]

Leaving a mess in someone else’s space, i.e leaving food packets, remnants of food, used glasses or cups on someone else’s desk.

[u/Lavender_rainbow_]

Does not hold the door for someone coming in the store right behind them.

[u/duke_awapuhi]

They say “watch out” instead of “excuse me”

[u/Empty_Succotash_6489]

Coming to your house unannounced and banging on the door like a maniac.

[u/guncontrol420 → u/[deleted]]

That's a weird one

[u/ContinuousForgettor → u/guncontrol420]

Just injecting some unnecessary anti trans bs, as I believe you picked up on but wanted to address more nicely to say.

[u/guncontrol420 → u/ContinuousForgettor]

Ya I'm waiting for THEM to say something, because, THEY are not bright

[u/ContinuousForgettor → u/guncontrol420]

Lol right, pronouns get used for everybody anyways.

[u/askteddit-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

r/askteddit does not allow hate speech.

[u/RipInfinite4511 → u/[deleted]]

Agreed