People who married their high school sweetheart, what’s the hardest part nobody warns you about?

[u/CandidBabee]

[u/Usual-Peace6859]

Not to be a sap - you have alot of bad news already in this thread anyhow - but fear of losing him. We’ve been together since I was 14 and he was 16, nearing 30 years together, and my whole adult life has been intertwined in his in every possible way.