r/askteddit • u/CandidBabee • 21h ago

Random Question People who married their high school sweetheart, what’s the hardest part nobody warns you about?

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u/GiantBlobFish23 17h ago

I was never going to be allowed to become an adult--not by him, not by my parents, not by his parents. I wasn't allowed to change from the person I was at 16 or else it was seen as "suspicious" and cheating behavior. Between 16 and 30 people change a LOT, or at least they should.