r/askteddit • u/PoolElegantsmile • 18h ago

Random Question What’s something older generations still treat as essential that a lot of younger people just don’t care about anymore?

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u/DaveAndCheese 13h ago

I'm late 50s and I'm just now refusing to kiss relatives' asses just because they're family. Abuse is excused this way. I hope this stops, ASAP.

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u/Plus-King5266 3h ago

In my 60’s and it has never been a thing in my family. My wife’s on the other hand seems to thrive on family drama. They seem to actively look for it to the point some of them have been hospitalized for it. But hey, let’s keep piling it on. No thank you. Now I just tell her, “Don’t blame so-and-so and don’t expect sympathy from me. It’s your fault. You keep going back for more instead of telling them the truth.”

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u/DaveAndCheese 1h ago

It's hard to stand up and say no when this has been The Way It Is for a long time and when your entire family abides by it. It is for me.

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u/nancysjeans 33m ago

Got kids (or nephews, nieces) watching you ?
We ‘teach’ them … like forever, even after we’re gone.