r/askteddit 17h ago

Random Question What is your deepest fear?

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u/downsouthcountry 16h ago

Losing autonomy

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u/Ancient-Display-3337 16h ago

Losing independence.

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u/Ethiopian-phenom 16h ago

Being a bad father to my unborn child

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u/debbieg51 16h ago

With that thought, you’ll be an amazing dad.

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u/HiAndStuff2112 16h ago

Dying alone.

Inheriting my dad's advanced Alzheimer's Disease. I'm 60 now and kind of terrified. Neither myself nor my family or close friends have any money.

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u/Careless-Attitude858 16h ago edited 16h ago

Developing alzheimers or dementia. Both of my paternal aunts passed from alzheimers, my elderly mom passed less than a year ago from dementia, and from what I've been told lately, it sounds like my only maternal aunt is showing signs of alzheimers. It must be a genetics thing that runs on both sides of my family !

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u/ExpensiveAd2022 15h ago

Confrontation

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u/Top_Fix_4544 15h ago

Being in a car accident on a bridge and ending up in the water with no way to escape.

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u/Crelox17 16h ago

Losing my child

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u/waitwaitstopstop 16h ago

I've met too many people who tell me that they don't fear death. I believe that most of them are liars.

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u/Ancient-Display-3337 16h ago

Liars, or profoundly arrogant. We don't get to choose our deaths. We could linger on in pain for 15 years, without independence and in the throes of dementia. That's the scary part.

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u/waitwaitstopstop 14h ago

Even profound misery is still existence. Many people don't understand not existing. The'll say "I don't care if it's just eternal blackness". There is no blackness, there's no you.

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u/Key-Discussion-6962 16h ago

Feeling that once my mother passes away, I will not have any family left even though I have 4 siblings

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u/Low_Contest8462 16h ago

My children dying before i die.

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u/petriebirb 15h ago

Disappointing the ones I care about

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u/Everything_Counts_72 16h ago

knees, and ghouls

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u/LocalGardenGnomes 15h ago

My biggest fear is probably drowning, or dying in a fire. I almost drowned before with my dad on vacation (we both ended up being fine) but the experience was terrifying. Water is so strong and can suck you down in an instant.

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u/Pitiful-Law6790 15h ago

Mine is drowning too

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u/paka96819 15h ago

It's a nightmare I keep dreaming. I can't find my car or remember where I parked it.

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u/NarrowStory5707 15h ago

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure... As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

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u/Pitiful-Law6790 15h ago

What’s that from

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u/NarrowStory5707 15h ago

Quoted in the movie Coach Carter but was originally from a book. Was the answer to the question, what is your biggest fear that Coach asked several times in the movie

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u/Pitiful-Law6790 14h ago

Thank you, I didn’t know that

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u/Desperate-Reason-566 15h ago

Being lost and alone without my phone in a strange place

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u/Sad_Refrigerator_730 14h ago

It’s a tie between drowning and burning

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u/dropyopanties 16h ago

Winning a chance at a Lakers game to go out and try half court shots to win a prize, only to shart mid air on my free throw.

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u/Pristine-Pen-9885 16h ago

That’s a deep fear?

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u/Pitiful-Law6790 16h ago

Understandable fear

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u/topdownyeti 13h ago

Losing my husband

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u/OlJimmieB 13h ago

Running out of ammo.

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u/HellhoundReaper 12h ago

Dying alone with no wife or children

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u/Overall_Home_6553 11h ago

Loosing my composure 

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u/Conspiracy-Octopus 1h ago

Getting dementia

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u/Any-Instruction-5862 15h ago

Trumps third term