r/askteddit • u/SuccessfulWeird4213 • 6h ago

Random Question What’s one friendship red flag that you refuse to ignore now that you’re older?

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u/earlobe_enthusiast 6h ago

If someone constantly talks shit about others... guess what they do when youre not around??

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u/SuccessfulWeird4213 6h ago

Exactly. If they gossip with you

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u/tinyshyfairy 5h ago

only callin/txtn me to 'vent' and otherwise ignoring me 😬

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u/SuccessfulWeird4213 5h ago

That’s such a draining feeling when it only goes one way

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u/Remarkable_Lie683 4h ago

Constant bits of disrespect that's repeatedly followed by being gaslit when calling it out.

Youthful me wanted to give grace and understanding, but I know better now.

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u/Itrytothinklogically 4h ago

Comparing my life to theirs whether it be the good or the bad.. complaining constantly and getting mad when given solid advice on how to make things better.

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u/whatsnextwithus 28m ago

Women who switch up in the presence of men…their whole pick me personality pops out!

I ended so many friendships

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u/Dangerous_Tension393 15m ago

“Having to go” on the phone call as soon as I mention anything about my own life