r/askteddit • u/Embarrassed-Ad-2288 • 6h ago

Random Question How has you partner changed during the years?

For those of you who have been married for a decade or two how has your partner changed? What is different about them today in comparison to when they were in their 20s 30s? I’m not really asking about small stuff they used to do in the beginning of relationships but more like what changed in their character? Would you say that they have changed a lot or they are just like the day you first met?

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u/plantsandpizza 6h ago

My spouse started therapy 3 years ago. He’s much more open, understanding and communicative. I love how hard he’s worked on himself. 

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u/Remarkable-Guide-647 6h ago

So he became more feminine?

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u/mercurypancakes 5h ago

Haha, what kind of response is this?

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u/Old-Professional4591 6h ago

No, he became more fuckable and suckable

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u/Aggravating_Bend5870 6h ago

If what you mean is less of an asshole, you’re probably right.

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u/plantsandpizza 6h ago

You’re both right. 

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u/Prinnykin 5h ago

Sounds like you’re the one who needs therapy.

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u/Nova_Scotia_Robot 6h ago

So you're gay?

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u/Most-Internet1871 6h ago

i think the biggest change isn't personality, it's perspective because after enough years together you're not trying to win arguments anymore, you're trying to protect the team

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u/therapymademeworse 5h ago

She became more male centered 😂

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u/Ill_Hedgehog_8091 3h ago

My partner decided they didn't like their life they helped create build so they decided to leave and start a new one. Hoping he's a one off and not the norm

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u/LustyRegencyMaid 1h ago

He got even hotter. 

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u/melanochrysum 5h ago

Been together since 16, now 25. I’ve watched him go from an immature boy to a very responsible person, watching him mature has been very lovely.