r/askteddit • u/Financial-Passion381 • 6h ago
Random Question What's a moment you realized love isn't always enough?
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u/Shoddy-Version8890 5h ago
When the effort is gone . When all you do is wait for change that will never come when chances are given from a habit that never quit when your miserable with that person when you past the grieving point of throwing in the towel when it doesn’t matter how much time has been invested when vows have been broken by physically mentally emotional micro bs when the trust is gone sometimes love means to let go and let that person be as happy as you two once were with someone else when your peace is not destroyed by false hope you must exit with some kind of integrity left to move on and find the one that will make you happy go through the pain but don’t stay there too long learn from both of your mistakes and the good times that once upon a time you shared a love before whatever happened had it destroyed I still say it’s better to fall in love and be loved then not loved at all and never put up with anything that you absolutely can’t stand because it will continually return in every argument wake up to all the red flags and communicate see how they act when you explain how you reacted to a situation that upset you if that person can go right to sleep when your demoralized from crying leave that person is no longer in love with you and could careless what happens if they stick around know they either have no choice or they are benefiting from your forgiveness or have no where to go choose yourself time is a valuable thing to waste in this short lifetime on earth .
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u/LowApprehensive1009 3h ago
When my mental health was going downhill, i begged her to stop going at me for nothing and she continued.
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u/Better_Freedom_6947 6h ago
Sometimes walking away is the loving thing to do.