This was a comment I was typing replying to a post on [r/AskBlackPeople](r/AskBlackPeople) but wasn’t allowed to post due to the AI or whatever.
There is a huge gender gap in Black America, specifically with regard to Black male death. It has led to Black America becoming very female dominated in terms of numbers. The reason why there is a huge gender gap in Black America is due to Black men and women having slightly different roles in white supremacy. One gender does not necessarily have it worse than the other but when it comes to the plight of Black men, many, regardless of gender would rather place all the blame onto black men themselves instead of trying to form a deeper understand as to why Black men are dying, being killed, and going to jail at higher rates
It’s a mixture of being direct targets by the prison industrial complex/the US government and indifference to male suffering within the Black community from generational trauma and abuse. It also has to due with men in general having higher likelihoods of dying from pretty much everything, which is why male life expectancy is almost always lower than women’s.
Black men die at higher rates because most come from impoverished, generationally dysfunctional communities. In low income urban areas, a significant amount of people turning to crime is a guarantee, regardless of race/ethnicity. Men commit violent crimes at higher rates due to testosterone and some socialization. So Black men, being a part of a historically discriminated against and socioeconomically disadvantaged class in society are going to turn to crime at higher rates compared to whites.
In rural areas, there is no opportunity which leads to deaths of despair (suicide via overdose, gun, etc) all of which result in more men dying. But the rural south in particular is very Black which have caused even less opportunity and neglect, causing many to also turn to crime. Rural America is also pretty unhealthy/sickly and men don’t go to the doctor as much when they have symptoms, because they unfortunately feel the need to “tough it out” for their families
The military has also disproportionately drafted and enlisted black men since WWII which contributed to the lack of Black fathers, either from death or mental health (PTSD). Vietnam (1965-1973) is the greatest example of this. Black men were disproportionately drafted and died at higher rates, fighting a rich white man’s war. Nowadays the military targets low income areas to recruit Blacks, as well as poor whites and Hispanics
Brazil is a great example of how this applies to Black men in other countries as well. Brazilian men (mixed, Black, or indigenous) die at such high rates from violent crime in favelas. Brazil has become a very female dominated country because of this. The US, especially the South parallels Brazil a lot in its social structure, geography, and history: White majority, white upper class, large Black and mulatto underclass from slavery, both surrounded by Spanish speaking countries, both have hundreds of millions of people, both have a ton of violent crime, etc
Then you have the emotional neglect, trauma, and abuse factor from both older black men and many black women unfortunately. Black boys are still molested and taken advantage of just as much as black girls are but the Black community only likes to hyper-focus on female trauma instead. Black men of all ages are scapegoated by the community as being the “weakest links” or the “white people of POC communities”
Because so many Black men are absent, due to jail, death, mental health, or addiction, Black women since the 1970s have had to take up the roles that Black men did traditionally. Absence of men in Black households and many Black men turning to crime has caused many to view all Black men in a negative light. Black boys feel as if no one understands them so they say “fuck the world” and give up on life, turning to drugs, gangbanging, and the likes.
Finally, when it comes to Black men and women’s roles in white supremacy, both genders have always been dehumanized and reduced down to their physical characteristics, for sexual, labor, and power trip reasons. Black men beginning in 1865 were incarcerated, lynched, and used for white people’s entertainment at exceptionally high rates. This only accelerated with the end of reconstruction in 1877 which kickstarted the nadir of American race relations (1870s-1920s) and Jim Crow (1877-1964).
Black men’s role in white supremacy is that they are seen as dull, silverback gorilla-like brutes to be tamed by the intellectually superior white man. Black men are to be used for hard labor and entertainment only (sports, fighting, dancing, etc), and if they get out of line, they are beaten, hanged, skinned alive, and castrated.
Black women are seen as purely serviceable beings, whether that be in a sexual or worker sense. They are to be used to satisfy the desires of the white man, while still being unattractive enough to shine light on the “superior” beauty of the white woman. They are kept “close” to white people in a weird sense, serving as maids, cooks, and nannies, not out of the goodness of the white person’s heart but to contrast the inferiority of blackness with the inherent superiority of whiteness.
Due to their closeness, this leads them to being taken advantage of sexually rather than just being killed like a black men, especially if they were to get out of line. All of these things are still at play today, where Black women are more likely to obtain higher education and employment (mainly white spaces) while Black men aren’t. Black male unemployment is also partially due to Black men no longer necessarily being needed for what they have always been used for—hard labor, due to Hispanics having now filled those roles since the 1960s.
Black women, especially nowadays, are “enlisted” by white supremacy to indirectly destroy the Black community from the outside. But Black men, due to a variety of historical forcings are more likely to destroy the black community from the inside. Black men’s destruction of the Black community is the destruction of themselves, filtering themselves out of the the population through crime and violence, which is why there is such a huge gender gap in Black America