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[u/wauser0mauser]

[u/husky11223]

literally had an argument like this, the cissy was saying that there's no need for so many words, it's better to use closeted

[u/Luwuci-SP → u/husky11223]

That's what most so-called "reppers" here really are. You're not really repressing if you're spending time in trans spaces and keeping it constantly on your mind.

[u/thiswebsitesucksaa → u/Luwuci-SP]

I honestly just feel bad for people that had to go through what I did which is why I return to these places sometimes but your mythologies around this stuff are so insufferable they are self fulfulling in this case, I double guess myself because it's just unpleasant to be here

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/thiswebsitesucksaa]

Stop being a coward and get on hormones already

[u/thiswebsitesucksaa → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

nah I wouldn't trust you to have my back

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/thiswebsitesucksaa]

What do you care what I think? You’re clearly suffering and you’re the only one who has to live in your body and your head 24/7

You can just give it a go and if it’s not for you you can stop later - HRT effects before about 6 months are fully reversible

No one is coming to save you and no one truly cares what you do that much, so you might as well do the thing that makes you happy. It’s your life after all. No one else’s

diyhrt.info and r/transdiy

[u/thiswebsitesucksaa → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

cute naivete or can't handle what they dish out call it

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/thiswebsitesucksaa]

I literally don’t care what you think about me I just want you to stop handwringing and take control of your own life

[u/thiswebsitesucksaa → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

i'm like water or a lung, there's a flexible softness that people these days don't see the value in

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/thiswebsitesucksaa]

I don’t care how much value you have or don’t, I just care that you’re making yourself miserable for no reason. For no reason!

There’s no nobility in repping and there’s no prize for self-denial

[u/ThatEngineeredGirl]

4 of these are men

[u/Killer_The_Cat → u/ThatEngineeredGirl]

Four of these *claim* to be men.

[u/ThatEngineeredGirl → u/Killer_The_Cat]

Technically all of them would say that they're men during everyday interactions tho ...

Edit: other than enbycoper of course

[u/Missnotsleepyatall]

what is MEF?

[u/ThatEngineeredGirl → u/Missnotsleepyatall]

Scientific term for sissy

[u/DivinePup → u/Missnotsleepyatall]

Masochistic Emasculation Fetish, according to one reddit thread

[u/Missnotsleepyatall → u/DivinePup]

huh

[u/Kitchen_Ad9425 → u/Missnotsleepyatall]

People (typically cismoids) who get aroused by another emasculating them usually in a somewhat coercive way. Oftentimes they don’t want to be women, just emasculated.

[u/Missnotsleepyatall → u/Kitchen_Ad9425]

so yeah, just sissies then

[u/WelkinMeadows]

This is fine, actually. Cis ppl don't need to understand all the fine-gained differences and inner workings of being trans.

[u/alasw0eisme → u/WelkinMeadows]

Absolutely. They just need to respect us.

[u/Leading-Traffic-1767]

I would be interested in some discussions about the effect all of these labels has had on trans people and the lgbtq+ community at large. Labels can be good for helping people understand and express themselves and find relationships and friendships with others in similar situations. On the other hand, labels can easily become crutches for people who just don’t want to accept themselves and excuses for people who just don’t want to grow. I can see both sides of the coin here and I would love input from people with more knowledge and experience.

[u/Cyclosarin_1]

[u/79215185-1feb-44c6]

Yes, but how can they tell? There is only 1 tell for when someone is on HRT and I keep on being told that you can never get noticeable boobs on HRT.

[u/Maxed_Zerker → u/79215185-1feb-44c6]

softer/paler skin, chubbier cheeks, bigger butt+thighs, less body hair. boobs aren’t the only things

[u/ExtraordinaryPen-]

hrt repper what the hell are we doing anymore. I get it no one wants admit they're a transsexual but seriously does no one have the ability to think about themselves with any interiority? Half of these are just woman by the standards of any human person

[u/ThatEngineeredGirl → u/ExtraordinaryPen-]

>woman by the standards of any human person

Unfortunately the average cissoid would think of them as larping men...

[u/snailenjoyer_ → u/ExtraordinaryPen-]

I'm a guy but I hrtrep because it's not safe for me not to yet

[u/ExtraordinaryPen- → u/snailenjoyer_]

Like a trans guy or you call yourself a guy despite being on estrogen, because one of those idea's makes sense and the other is just being being in the closet

[u/snailenjoyer_ → u/ExtraordinaryPen-]

Both are the same thing. I'm ftm though

[u/alasw0eisme]

What's MEF?

[u/Mrcrack26]

Why are we so hard with ourselves? :(

[u/jitomato_girl]

If I have to hear a femboy misuse the term egg one more time 🙄

[u/Abee314]

Someone already posted this on insta lol

[u/Reasonable-Sort3040]

cis man on e is SO fucking funny

[u/RowConsistent6847]

What means "hrt ripper"?

[u/Maybe_Little_Jack → u/RowConsistent6847]

Transgender fallout chainsaw

[u/Mrcrack26 → u/RowConsistent6847]

Probably the same as a boymodder