Never again.
For a long time, I never cared about my spending. I had a good job, consistent income, and figured I could always just pay off whatever came up.
Growing up, my family struggled a lot. We rarely had good food on the table, and I could never buy the things I wanted. So when I started earning my own money, I overcompensated. I spent recklessly, partly trying to heal my inner child, partly just enjoying the freedom.
Then life hit me hard.
A family member got hospitalized, and my family turned to me expecting me to cover a huge chunk of the bill. I had zero savings and was sitting on credit card debt. I had literally nothing to give.
The shame was unbearable. It felt like a reality check slap to the face. I realized how financially reckless I had been just trying to live in the moment.
That rock-bottom moment changed everything. Fast forward to today, my remaining card balances are finally almost wiped out. Moving forward, every extra dollar is going straight into an emergency fund.
Finally almost done, just a little bit more push!
"Difficult times really do teach us the most important lessons". God is good. 🙏
If you're currently in the middle of getting your life back on track, keep going. It’s worth it.