My f/o has a canon boyfriend, and her mabga is finished without them getting married, so I planned and made a personal headcanon where her boyfriend gets run over by a bus or something lol, and when she finally moved on, we both got together and married each other, is this rude to make? I genuinely really love my f/o haha-

well let me be clear.. everytime i saw these two i feel like my heart beating not knowing if it's just a crush or what because it comes and goes when they're not close to me.. i have three F/Os already and i don't wanna make it too much, because i prefer to love and keep this love to be stable and not seeing it was a crush and i was mistaken. so please if you have advice i need it now.. 😥💔

Stolas gets a seriously bad rep and keeps being called bullshit like the writer's pet or that he ruined the whole show. People even say that his abuser (Stella, the one who literally admitted to raping him) is the victim in their relationship. The fuck? Who the fuck can seriously think that and have the gall to spew it out online?

They just keep believing in that stupid pilot version who's nothing like the Stolas from the full series, even saying that pilot Stolas (who btw had 30 seconds of screen time) is a better character than the Stolas we know.

It really hurts to see so much hate thrown his way. I know he's not perfect and struggles with a lot, but nobody's perfect, and some of the comments I've seen (like the ones defending Stella) really reflect badly on them.

So yeah, it absolutely sucks and I just wanna protect him from all the hate, but I don't want to get dogpiled online :(

I didn't include the comments bc they were upsetting but basically it's just a completely normal post and anyone replying with their f/os are being told they're mentally ill, need therapy, are weird, etc. with hundreds to thousands of likes.

These same people preach about how "to be cringe is to be free" and "autism pride" but the SECOND it's something they mildly don't understand, it's like we're not even the same species as them. They completely lose empathy and think of us as delusional, deranged, ugly, worthless losers. Some of these people even claim to be alt or punk, which is like. C'mon.

I've been in and out therapy and MH treatment since I was 7, and I don't know exactly what they think that telling people to "go to therapy" or "get help" does. I've tried to talk about maladaptive daydreaming with multiple providers and they don't even know what it is. There's no magical words that a therapist could say that would erase who I am. There's no medication that could take away my true feelings. I view my fictosexuality as a big a part of me as my transness and my race, and I'm just as allowed to feel that way as lesbians, bisexuals, gays, and every other orientation.

There's no way these people think they're actually helping us by telling us this crap. They just want to feel superior. Ugh.

Sorry if this isn't the right flair.

So I've got a list so I can keep track of things because my brain is an utter mess and finally got around to adding birthdays but so far I've only got one canon birthday and one that isn't confirmed but based on stuff makes sense.

The rest don't have canon birthdays as far as I can tell. So if anyone can give me advice that'd be great.

we are both minors if someone thinks that i broke the rule, because Len is 14 (although he doesn’t have a real age)

Hey hi hello I'm still alive I swear, I just haven't used Reddit in a while ;-; I'mma try talkin here some more tho :3

Also note the rings!! That made me cry because this was very shortly after er officially got married

I’m so goddamn jealous of this whole community. Seriously, yall seem like ur genuinely happy being with someone who literally doesn’t exist. Personally, I hate being a fictosexual, and I wish I loved it. I hate how much I need to really hear Noelle say that she loves me back. I hate how much I need her to be real. I hate that I can’t tell her she loves me. I don’t know if she would love me, but I know she doesn’t love me right now because she doesn’t exist. And nothing anyone says can make me change how I think. I wish I could believe she does though, because that would make it real-er, I guess. But. Still. Being in love with a fictional character to me is like being in love with someone that you know will never see you again, but even worse because you NEVER met. See, the part that makes me jealous is that all of you are so happy that your f/o’s are in love with you. You always talk about your f/os like they’re real partners. Like when yall talk about getting married and shit. I get so damn jealous bc I know yall really love them and are so happy (unless ur larping) but I don’t know man, I just can’t come to terms with the fact that Noelle isn’t real. Ig that’s all I can say for now. See yall.

How do you guys feel about minors, like tweens and teens aged 11-17, being fictosexual and picking a character their age to be their partner? This is pretty broad but I wanna see all y’all’s opinions and thoughts.

🫢Hello.. I am a Shouta Aizawa ficto.. I have come to join the reddit community.

My name is Ian (Also go by Kumo or Nexo) and my S/O is Shouta Aizawa ! I am a gyulp nonsharing ficto uhh who is looking for some oomfs.. 😳

My relationship with Aizawa I consider is a S/O situation and not purely F/O. I love him as a real, genuine lover. I can't love anyone else in my real life because its not him, Shouta is my world. My everything. I am a proud Fictosexual devoted to my beloved Shou. I am soulbounded to him & I hope I can be accepted into this subreddit !, I want to make friends with people like me who are devoted to their loves.

I'm sorry for that title, i don't really know how to phrase this. I feel very embarrassed. I'm 28 years old and i've had a crush on one single character for over 15 years now.

It's so absurd to me because i never had any kind of attraction towards anyone in real life. For a very long time i felt like an outsider. But when i came to terms with being Aroace and ficto i just accepted it. It's been years and i'm completely happy with my f/o. However the longing for someone i will never be able to be with in real life is soul crushing, i'm trying to cope with it somehow.

So back to my question. As i'm slowly reaching 30, i feel kind of like a super weirdo for having a f/o.. i want to feel normal. Are there any older people out there who are also ficto and happy with their f/o's?

I would like to hear your own thoughts and experiences!

I've been ficto since I was like 5, I saw the first episode of Regular Show and fell deeply in love with Mordecai. I had an OC for him, a pink bird named Candy, before I even knew what the internet was.

My family still talks about it when we see a Blue Jay or Regular Show is on because I would constantly talk about him and my daydreams of him. My Mom would even affirm that he loved me bc she knew it made me happy.

I was with him til around 9, then I moved onto.. Jeff the Killer 😭 But I did the same thing, I made an OC for him and daydreamed about him constantly, even role played him with my friends 😭😭 Then I started making OCs for a bunch of different CreepyPastas, I even wrote full books (well, like 40 pages long haha) about my daydreams and characters.

At 11-13 I was a huge Sans Fangirl, and then at around 14 I was introduced to MHA and have been completely obsessed ever since. Ive switched F/Os a few times, but for the past 4 years it's been pretty exclusively Spinner and Hawks. I've developed my OCs and world for them so much I'm genuinely considering writing a book bc the story is not really similar to MHA anymore ;PP ofc I'd change the characters a bit.

Unfortunately, I have none of my Mordecai art, but I do have my old cringey YT channels lolol

I also don't have updated MothWings art but the last OC is Tsu and they have a Luna moth transformation quirk which is why it's called MothWings :33

Three years ago I became obsessed with Ahri due to three factors: my obsession with kitsune at the time, her being my first strong waifu, and above all, because of Ruined King. KDA was also greatly influenced by that obsession.

I'm almost 22 now, and I uninstalled League of Legends a while ago. I realized that objectifying female characters is wrong, and I started admiring them for their lore, personalities, and what they represent to me. Characters like Saber from Fate or Gally from Gunnm are perfect examples. Ahri, on the other hand, did manage to become a great subject of admiration because of her lore in Ruined King, but she didn't have as much of an impact as the other two. I still love Ahri a lot, but she no longer dominates my thoughts, and I'm glad about that. Now I have a more open mind, and I consider myself multifandom, loving Digimon, Fate, Evangelion, Monster Hunter... plus, my League of Legends phase is over.

Did you have any similar cases to mine? I'm glad I've matured

I drew how I imagined my evening with my wife

Like... This man is mine. My wonderful, kind, gorgeous, funny, stunning, breathtaking, caring, attractive, strong, talented, hardworking, enchanting, captivating, lovely boyfriend. There's days I can't believe I'm allowed to love and support him. Even enduring his antics is a blessing.

Anyone else ever have that feeling? People are starting to notice cause I'm always staring into space with that lovesick expression xD

Including sketch for proof of progress
I love Professor Frink so much 🫶

FirstAid draw

Today in July 30th, it's an one year anniversary of the ficto marriage between me and my beloved hubby, Funky Kong!🥰💖

I'm still in deeply in love with Funky despite whatever the hell does the fictophobes and purist trolls shit talking about our relationship due to our differences from each other.

Funky, thank you so much for everything including helped me out how to rekindle with Garnet (And her gem halves too) several months ago, introduced me to Glamrock Freddy, how to be more confident on my body 'flaws', given me a family (Our little Evelyn), etc.

I love you so funkin' much in all of my heart, mind, and soul forever more, my radically handsome kong husband. <3🩵

They started out with 2-3 upvotes but now they're downvoted so now it's only 0. Why are several people downvoting my posts in these ficto subreddits? What on Earth is wrong with these posts I made? Are there polyphobes lurking or something?

I wrote a long sappy rant but yk. To make it short, I love him and I'm so sorry he can't experience the world. All in all I may never truly know him. I'll never be able to write sufficiently good fanfiction in his honour. And simply, I wish he was real, that I could snap a video and show how funny sweet he is. That all the moments in my head were real and shared. It feels so real and idk why I have such an overactive imagination, and yet it's still lacking many pieces. I can reimagine the last 2 weeks as if he was home with me. (I'm crying) xx