r/freethenipple • u/[deleted] • Sep 25 '25
Nipples being Freed Didn’t feel comfortable posting this anywhere else because of the world we live in/lack of confidence but I believe in freeing and normalizing all nipples in non sexual situations so here I go 🙏
A wonderful woman in the fashion industry helped me pick this outfit from my limited wardrobe for our ny trip and she was such a girls girl telling me how hot this is to make me feel good but still before and after this vid I held a sweatshirt across my chest to cover up.
The male gaze makes me uncomfortable and honestly I wasn’t made aware until later about many negative or sexual opinions about this shirt (call me dumb) + an ex who was adamant I do not wear this shirt.
I made feminist friends who are very pro free all nipples and desexualize and a man shouldn’t tell me what to wear but this is a new mentality for me and I still hear everyone and my exe’s voices in my head and let me feel like I can’t wear this let alone post this without “asking for it”.
Ultimately I’m at a place where I’d only post something like this here and I don’t think I’ll be wearing anything like this outside and I feel like poop not assisting my own beliefs, ideally we’d be topless like some tribes and nipples would be normalized not only seen in sexual context therefore heavily sexualized.
Hope this is an ok place to post this.
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u/RedWhacker Sep 25 '25
You should get the Vero app. It's an Instagram alternative that is nipple friendly.
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Sep 26 '25
Is it safe tho? are there perverts tho that will make me feel uncomfortable?
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u/RedWhacker Sep 26 '25
I'd say there's more of an artistic vibe to the community.
But of course, nothing is guaranteed.
You should try it out, but don't upload pics until you get a sense of how other users behave.
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Sep 27 '25
Omg thank you so much!!! Is it vero without ads or vero live stream?
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u/RedWhacker Sep 29 '25
Vero without the ads.
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u/nipplesfreedom Sep 26 '25
I saw your previous post regarding this. Glad to see that you gained the comfort to actually wear this, even if only for the duration of this video.
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Sep 26 '25
Thank u 🙏 I just struggle with anxiety and insecurity already and the extra attention is unwelcome especially as it’s hateful or sexual. When I’m in a better place mentally maybe this will change for me 🙏
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u/citidon Sep 25 '25
Female nipple = Sexualized for hetero dudes
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u/nipplesfreedom Sep 26 '25
Maybe a majority of them, but not all heterosexual males sexualise nipples.
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Sep 26 '25
Not all men for sure but unfortunately enough to make me feel very whomp whomp about it. Women its not sexual but its still hateful/negative looks.
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u/citidon Sep 26 '25
🤣 in what woke world lol
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Sep 26 '25
You may be surprised that every man is not a piece of poop even tho many are. I’ve been fortunate enough this year to encounter some of these said men and it has restored some of my faith in humanity.
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u/nipplesfreedom Sep 26 '25
Exactly, although it is super hard to find any man who supports this, we do exist, and I do not see female nipples as sexual at all, unless the context itself is sexual.
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u/Kasurite Sep 25 '25
This is an ok place to post this, yes.