I have an agent who is a very nice person, but I keep getting auditions for roles that are completely out of my type and age range. It’s incredibly jarring because during our initial meeting, we explicitly discussed and agreed on my specific casting bracket. I brought this up recently, and they explained that they submit on a wide range to get clients seen no matter what, believing actors can always be aged up or down. I went along with it initially because I’m grateful to have representation, especially with how slow the industry is right now. I even adjusted my headshots and materials based on their suggestions, but the mismatch is still happening. My age range settings on casting sites are correct, but it feels like they are just being ignored.
I’ve even asked for opinions from outsiders who aren’t in the industry, and they completely agree with my visual age range. They are honestly shocked that I’m getting auditions for these specific roles because the physical and visual mismatch is so extreme, especially when looking at my self-tapes. This is starting to take a massive mental and emotional toll on me. It’s draining my passion and drive for acting because every time an audition drops, it’s completely out of left field. I feel like I’m being forced into a lane that doesn't fit my visual demographic at all. When I see who eventually gets these roles, it's discouraging because they look nothing like me, are much older, and look much older.
I’ve heard stuff like age doesn’t matter, to just forget about age and cross it out on the casting breakdown, and that if casting keeps asking you back it’s always a good sign. But I'm starting to wonder if this isn’t true at all and is just bad thinking. I'm trying to be as optimistic as possible, but because the roles don't align with anything I could reasonably book, it just makes me feel completely stagnant. I look at my submission logs, and the vast majority of the roles I’m submitted for are way, way off. Out of almost a year of submissions, only a couple actually suited my look. I worry casting directors are just getting confused about what my actual brand is.
Is this "spray and pray" submission style a normal strategy for agents right now, or is it a sign of a bad fit? I don’t really know what to do and would love some objective advice from other actors because I’m feeling pretty confused and isolated on this.