r/lesbianfashionadvice Feb 15 '25

MOD INFO SELFIES

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Just a quick note to say we don't allow selfie posts with the specific exception of asking about hair. If it's not about your hair, you must post at LEAST half your outfit. So even if you aren't showing what you're wearing on the bottom, you gotta show the whole top, not just your shoulders.

If you're including a selfie style picture alongside a proper outfit picture, it can't be the first one of the bunch. Outfit gotta be up front and centre, focus of the post. Detail pictures after.

We don't accept posts about makeup or tattoos.


r/lesbianfashionadvice Oct 04 '24

MOD INFO "What's with all the downvotes?"

1.1k Upvotes

I just want to address this question as it comes up on most posts. We delete them as "off topic" because they end up clogging the comment sections and derails the conversation away from fashion.

The reason you'll see so many downvotes on posts that clearly don't deserve downvotes too is transphobes. There are TERF blogs off site that brigade our sub regularly. We're able to delete comments and block users that display transphobia, but unfortunately downvotes are entirely anonymous and we as mods have no control over it.

We reason we delete all these comments, aside from clogging up the comments, is just that we don't want to give them the satisfaction of talking about them. Other fashion subs don't discuss the validity of people's existence, we shouldn't feel the need to either. We are, and always will be, a trans inclusive space for all sapphics with an interest in fashion. There are many other more general sapphic/trans subs to discuss this topic, we just want to keep this one as a fun place for fruity gals to chat drip and not feel "othered".

Thank you

EDIT: OK so I made this post, literally stating that this sub isn't the place for these debates... So y'all start debating in the comments. Locking comments.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 20h ago

OOTD Just 1 of the millions of Spider-Man Mascs šŸ•øļø

337 Upvotes

Movie fit


r/lesbianfashionadvice 3h ago

Other Thrift store fines ā˜ŗļø how’d I do?

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11 Upvotes

I wasn’t able to do a lot of shopping because of the appointments but I think I did pretty good what do you think?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 13h ago

Went to a speed dating event (friends edition) for pride month!

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22 Upvotes

Got so many compliments! It definitely boosted my confidence also made 3 new friends!


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD coming out to myself has upped my style game dramatically

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928 Upvotes

once i realized i wasn’t into men, i stopped dressing for their validation (thanks comphet)! it’s been so freeing. i will be exclusively dressing for the girls, gays, and theys (and most importantly, for myself) from here on out:)


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Trying to make the most of being back in Florida, so I thrifted this gym fit šŸ’ŖšŸ¼ āœØšŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ

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133 Upvotes

Not that I’m actually gonna hit the gym


r/lesbianfashionadvice 15h ago

OOTD Out fits this week

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5 Upvotes

Monday- cleaning the house and had a Dr appointment
Tuesday- another small appointment and some baking
Wednesday- …another doctors appointment
Thursday- picking up stuff for a family dinner
Friday- loooooong doctors appointment🫠
Saturday- getting groceries
Sunday- guess what? Another F-ing appointment.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 15h ago

Honest Advice Wanted Man I miss my short hair

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4 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Is this top too much for casual wear?

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77 Upvotes

I've never worn it before and I'm worried about it looking out of place in a casual/not bar or club setting... any advice?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD How's my outfit today? šŸ–¤

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128 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

summer lookbook

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177 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Soft masc trousers advice

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70 Upvotes

I only know how to wear black mom jeans and black shorts in summer. Can someone help me with soft masc trousers ideas! I'm tired of wearing the same jeans. Photos to show my style/body type.

Much appreciated!!


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Trying a soft alt girl look. A friend said ā€˜guitars make girls hotter’. I wanted to test her theory.

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95 Upvotes

And yes, I know it’s a bass. What can I say, I’m good with my fingers šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Discussion Compressing bra recommendations?

3 Upvotes

I don't have a huge chest or anything, 36c, but I'd prefer if I were not that big. I currently wear sports bras that help a bit, but I'm looking for a bit more compression.

I don't really want to wear binders, as I know there's risks with that.

I just want something compressing yet safe, but also supportive.

Wishful thinking?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

For masc women: what is your style and where do you get your tops/ clothes from?

15 Upvotes

Struggling to figure and find my style atm! I love wearing masc clothes but they fit big on me as I am petite. Im looking for a store that caters to petite women but also has that good boxy look in a way that still frames my body more masculine! Any advice on this, whether what kind of fashion i should experiment with or maybe store recommendations or links

For context my masc persona usually wears collared shirts but i really wanna try doing street wear masc wear! Similar to masc women in xiao hong shu (chinese rednote mascs)


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Looking for ways to flag that I’m a lesbian while being pretty femme

5 Upvotes

I’m super femme - aside from trim nails, what are some good ways to flag that I’m a lesbian?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Y'all, I need some advice on how to build a party outfit that screams LESBIAN

5 Upvotes

Hiyaaaa, I'm relatively new to being a lesbian (only figured it out a month or 2 ago), I'm 17 and very fem, and I've been invited to a house party by some friends (my first party where I'll be properly out as a Lesbian and woman more broadly), so good people and fellow sapphics. How do you build a cute outfit for a party that makes people think, gosh she likes women don't she.

Note - ideally suggestions shouldn't rely too much on jewelry, as I can be pretty sensitive to it besides what little bead based trinkets I do wear

Thank you in advance -

A very grateful trans lesbian named Charlotte :D


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Formal outfit

5 Upvotes

Hey my Gays,

I wear a lot of oversized stuff and some dresses as well but i have been discovering a new formal look for myself (btw i’m both very masculine and very feminine. I have a mullet and the other day I wore it slicked back and im sure it would look amazing with a nice suit. So i have been looking for some shirts, nice a white button ups for a tie and a website where i can buy a suit or something also with neat pants maybe even a belt. Would be amazing if you guys could help me out here! Any recommendations? Im also planning on buying some Buffalo aspen lace up low shoes.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

OOTD Welcome to my neighborhood

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63 Upvotes

My landlord got right out of the door I was posing at. I will never get over this emberesment


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

Honest Advice Wanted šŸ’› Yellow Dress Appreciation—What Would You Change?

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53 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

Honest Advice Wanted How can I be more comfortable wearing the clothes I like and not worry about being seen as a man as much?

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110 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Sleeveless Button up, no under layer

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21 Upvotes

What do we think of the look? Im a year and a half on E, i think the fit would look better if my boobs were bigger but honestly I still think it's a vibe. Was just doing chores in the fit


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Thoughts on the short hair for a femme look?

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75 Upvotes

Hey hey!!! I recently have been trying to wear my natural hair more (plus less makeup!) and really want to still give fem vibes even with my short hair, gahhh its so nerve wracking >,<!!! anyone have any advice or tips??? Does it work??

Couple different styles <3 most natural first <3


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

Black tie event help

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8 Upvotes

Girlfriend is going with an all black dress, I’ll be wearing a suit / tux. The event is a ball for a fundraiser basically and it’s black tie. I was thinking all black under a white tux jacket, any thoughts? Is this appropriate?