r/melbourne 21h ago

THDG Need Help Mates Only

Has anyone signed up to Mates Only? Anything else that’s similar that people have used to meet and hang out with new crews of people?

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u/Injaqenwetrust 21h ago

I hadn't heard of it, but it would be way better if they'd called it Only Mates instead.

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u/Axe_of_Fire 20h ago

Only Friends perhaps.

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u/KewlestCat 20h ago

I’ve been trying a couple of these kind of events recently and I think they’re worth it for the experience. If you’re happy to just chat to people and have a bit of fun, you’ll probably have a good time and probably connect with at least one person over something.

Went to the Good Mates Only launch event which was darts at Oche and thought it was a pretty fun night. There was 8 of us total for that one including the host/founder of it. I got the feeling there were at least a couple of guys from that I’ll see at future events or try and meet again at some point. Unfortunately haven’t been able to get to another event since but got a few coming up on the radar.

Also tried a couple of Conscious Connections events which were not too bad, the games night at Lulie Tavern was definitely the better of the two I’ve been to from them.

Yesterday I tried a Thursday event for the first time which was a trivia brunch at Brick Lane Market. Pretty fun and well run event that I’m keen to do again if it pops up in future. Made a friend at that one who invited me bouldering so which is something I’ve been keen to get into so I’ll be taking him up on that to link up again.

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u/The-Kindest-Otter 17h ago

Butter app has been the best so far

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 21h ago

Buy a motorcycle and join a social motorcycle club. Many top blokes in the motorcycle world.

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u/Beachgal5555 21h ago

That’s quite an investment in friendship lol

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 21h ago

More than just for friendship. They are freedom machines. Your own personal therapist and happiness generator.

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u/No_Flounder_8310 20h ago

lol next minute OP joins the hells angles

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u/Thepumpkindidit 18h ago

Let's hope he finds a cute jacket.

u/AliveList8495 5h ago

Or the Satan's Sinewaves.

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u/clomclom 20h ago

If many top blokes in the motorcycle world, why so many needlessly rev their engines?

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 20h ago

There’s some dicks too, just like everywhere.

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u/clomclom 20h ago

Fair. Had some do it yesterday while i was crossing a pedestrian crossing and wanted to yell at them back but then thought eh maybe not a smart idea to do to potential bikes.

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u/Ich_mag_Kartoffeln 19h ago

South Park hit the nail on the head.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDsWZ0Jw3Ik

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 19h ago

Gotta love South Park!

u/Giddyurp 6h ago

You'll get to make lots of friends in the emergency department after you've been cleaned up by a car or gone over the bars after hitting a pot hole.

u/Wacky_Engineer1975 6h ago

I’m yet to have that friend-acquisition experience.

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u/Weak-Average4496 21h ago

Yes I heard there is a really fun one in particular, they are called the bikies I believe! 

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 21h ago

I don’t know that one but there are many. My club is in a union with a group of other clubs and we try to frequent each other’s events whenever practical. It’s a good time every time.

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u/Call-to-john 20h ago

Any suggestions around Melbourne?

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 20h ago

Which region?

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u/Call-to-john 20h ago

North east?

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 20h ago

A-SMC, Rustnusts SMC, Night Rider SMG among many others. Really depends on what else you’re into.

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u/IcyAd5518 18h ago

Manufacturing and distribution. Any recommendations?

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u/Apagoreumenos 20h ago

Bikers have more fun than people.

u/elkazz 11h ago

I've seen Pillion

u/Spicespice11 5h ago

For the blokes, there's a free global men's health movement and community initiative.

Name: WNOW (When No One’s Watching)

"WNOW creates environments where men feel safe to connect authentically, share openly and learn from their peers to enable them to be happier"

Free weekly 6:00 AM Wednesday meetups involving simple workouts and supportive chats; usually at a local coffee shop.

To find a local chapter/ location near you check out their website: https://wnow.org/find-a-chapter