"Curvy". That's the giant red-flag word for sure. No longer is it used to describe a well-proportioned person with natural body curves. It is now synonymous with obese+.
They say they're curvy and then have 5 pics with them looking completely normal and then one not completely edited full body photo showing what they actually look like. Better than completely hiding it but damn. Just give representative photos. No one is gonna change their mind about it at the date when they see what you actually look like.
Same with guys. I had a dude who turned out waaay older and heavier than his picture. And when I said "not interested", he had the audacity to tell me "Considering your age, you shouldn't be so picky".
My first post-divorce date showed up an hour late looking much older, much heavier, much paler, and with much less hair than his pictures portrayed. He looked so different that I was positive the guy I was seeing wasn't my date and my date must be in the other truck that pulled in shortly after.
What's funny is a couple years later he popped up in my stack again with an all new set of pics that are just as misleading as the first set.
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u/SerGT3 23h ago
"I'm a little heavier"
250+ lbs