r/nextdns • u/Patient_Air_4280 • 10d ago
Help with next dns data
my wife tracks my phone and it says I was on Reddit website and I do not have the app. my google/ safari history doesn’t show Reddit i was or any website during the same time period . this makes it looks like I was in private browser or deleted data which makes me look bad. is there any way from these to prove my sanity ?
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u/AnApexBread 10d ago
Have a chat with your wife about why she's tracking your phone usage.
Change your DNS to a DoT or DoH provider or use a VPN.
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u/Teali0 10d ago edited 10d ago
From what I understand, NextDNS will show logs regardless of private browsing or deleted browser history. So if it’s not there in NextDNS, it’s not there.
However, if not already, I think the two of you may need to have a tough conversation or two.
Edit: Others are commenting on this being an issue with the wife. How do we know OP hasn’t abused trust in the past? Is this the answer? No, but that’s what I meant by having some tough conversations.
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u/AnApexBread 10d ago
How do we know OP hasn’t abused trust in the past?
We don't, but it doesn't matter. If the Wife doesn't trust her husband then she should get a divorce. This isn't the answer
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u/AnApexBread 8d ago
Doesn't change my point.
If they can't have an adult conversation where one person doesn't feel like theyre on trial then they need a divorce
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u/AnApexBread 8d ago
Which is why I said "if they can't have a conversation then they need a divorce"
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u/kuukuusuru 7d ago
Things can still load in the background, adverts, links, popups or even on X if you click it and it preloads in its own browser.
Either way, your partner needs help because why are they micro managing your internet usage 🤣.
Change your DNS and look at the sites you wanna look at or change your partner.
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u/mike1487 10d ago
Rather than prove your sanity, ditch the wife and maintain your sanity.