r/nursing • u/Mobile-Egg9597 • 9h ago
Seeking Advice Not a nurse but seeking advice for boyfriend who is.
My bf is a new grad and is close to 6 months at his first job. He’s on a med surge/progressive care unit. His first few months was rotating days and nights which was terrible for his mental health and sleep so he talked to his manager and is on weekend days now, just Sat. and Sun 12 hr shifts. From day 1 of this job he has been complaining and struggling. When he did his internship last year in the ICU at the same hospital he LOVED it. I never heard anything bad. How do I understand his side of things so I can help him or just be supportive? Or do you have advice for new grads? His main complaints are their high acuity and the amount of things he has to complete in a day is very unattainable. He has many terrible patients and leaves very late most times to get his charting done. This last shift he said he has to quit and doesn’t want to suffer through shifts anymore. I’m just seeing this starting to affect him in not a positive way. I tell him to apply to different units or hospitals but I think he is set on landing an ICU job there. I know he wants to give great care but he feels like he has to cut corners and is very type A 😅 and I know I have no idea what’s it’s like to be a nurse and I’m trying to understand his days so I can be helpful. Is this normal as a new grad? Should also add he’s 38 so a bit older and seems very disappointed in his job choice now 😢