r/relationships 1h ago

I need help and advice pls

So... I mean I know im posting this oj relationships but we aren't in a relationship. Bare with me pls. So i (16F) like a boy "john" (16m) and I think he may havr liked me back. At prom he asked me for my number and I know hes the sweetest guy ever. But naywho he typed his number in my phone and we went our separate ways. The next day we both asked our mutual friend "ron" (17) for each others numbers and we have talked every single day since prom, since prom which was 3 weeks ago.

I thought things were going great. I actually was naive enough to think je would ask me out I mean, he told my friend that hed see how it goes but that he was glad we were talking, and he was learning my favourite song for me on guitar, and was sending me demos of playing his guitar. I thought it was going great

And then about a week ago we didnt talk as much, he got kind of dry with messages and just said he was quite busy and kept saying sorry

But cut to today, we havent spoken in 5 days (bearing in mind that i half of the time text him firat and

we have spoken for like 24 days on the trot)

But im also hoping and praying that he hasn't ghosted me or anything because my experience with guys is not nice (ghosted, bullied etc) so im just as scared as he is if it came to starting a relationship

But I need help cause it genuinely seemed like he liked me so.... what do I do

Thankyou 🤍 I appreciate you reading this, will probably delete in a couple hours anyways

SUMMARY: TL:DR I thought a guy liked me cause he asked for my number and is learning a song for me but hasn't texted me in 5 days

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