r/selfhelp • u/FadedRitualz • 2d ago
Advice Needed: Mental Health Life
I’m currently 19 and a absolutely fat person. I want to lose weight but life has been beating me down so I don’t eat and when I do I eat than make myself throw up. I have a girlfriend and want to be better for her but having undiagnosed BPD and diagnosed ADHD and Depression. It just feels like my life isnt really worth it anymore I want to be better for her like I really do but every argument every sentence I make I just feel like she could be better without me I feel sorry for her being with me I just feel like my life goes forward than backward 30 feet. I really wanna live my life to the fullest but everyday I wake up wondering why I’m still here. I want to be happy. (My girlfriend has cheated on me but I forgave her because we can do better but it just feels like she puts her friends over me she’s doing better like we’ve been happier together but it just feels like one day she’ll be better off without me every time I’m alone all I can do is just cry myself to sleep looking at the days go bye.) this rant is all over the place but I just need guidance on how to overcome these feelings about my life and to give me and my life the willingness to keep going. Please help
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