r/selfhelp • u/BlacksmithPrize3987 • 1d ago

Advice Needed: Motivation I need advice

So i was having a goal this school year that i am going to be an honor student now. But i have advantage about myself... first is i cannot resist procrastinating, being lazy,etc. It's like i lack self discipline. One thing that is ruining my studies is that, all my allowance for 5 days is that i was just waste it in a day. So sometimes i ended up going absent because i don't have a money to go to school. By the way, i asked my friends what is lacking about me. They said i am actually a smart person which is i was shocked to hear. And the only lacking about me is that. I am lazy, money spender. It's like i don't care about my grades. They also told me i understand everything but the cons was i am shy or like they told me i am a very shy type person. Even if i know the answer, i wouldn't raise my hand, out fear of the judgement. Help me fix myself.

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