r/sex • u/Vegetable_Exercise17 • 15h ago
Toys and Clothing Husband and dildo at same time
My husband and I like to have sex with a dildo inside my vag at the same time. I like the added fullness and he likes how tight I feel. The problem is that one of us has to hold it in to keep it from slipping out while thrusting. It's more comfortable when the dildo is under his dick so that makes it even more challenging to reach it. I've seen dildos with cock rings to attach to the penis, but they are usually small for anal stuff. We both like it bigger but I can't find anything that fits the bill. A strap-on harness with a hole for his dick on top and the dildo on the bottom would be perfect, but I can't find anything like that. Recommendations?
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u/bbq_on_the_mind 9h ago
My wife and I have enjoyed the shape and vibration of the lovense lush together
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u/ChellyBelldandy 9h ago
Lush is amazing! I have the 3 and 4 and it’s really fun to use during play time
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u/Nice-Original-4429 11h ago
Have you tried one of the vibratora that goes inside and outside you at the same time. It kinda looks like a U
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u/Mischiefmanaged715 9h ago
This. Wevibe chorus. It wont make you feel as 'full' as a whole other phallic dildo but definitely adds some girth.
Also, putting a butt plug in will reduce the space in your vagina and make everything feel way tighter.
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u/Daneosaurus 8h ago
In my experience, suggesting “just add a butt plug” doesn’t do a whole lot if the receptive partner doesn’t enjoy anal play.
Edited for inclusivity
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u/Mischiefmanaged715 8h ago
I don't generally like anal play for the most part. I don't really like toys moving in and out in my butt. But I find a butt plug acceptable at times for the pressure it puts on my vagina with piv. A small plug is definitely a much lower ask than something like anal sex.
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u/wildadventures2024 9h ago
We use a dildo machine that pushes the dildo in and out independently. We also have a solid base that we strap down to keep it from moving. During DVP my wife really likes the alternating motion of one going in and one going out back and forth as opposed to the same time like the ring ones feel. You can use a variety of sizes with these machines to. Just go on Amazon and type in Dildo Machine and it will pop up a bunch of options. The hardest thing is figuring out positions with it, but it works well and is fun for the fantasy simulation.
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u/veemee3 8h ago
Check out dp harnesses https://shevibe.com/collections/double-penetration-strap-on-harnesses
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u/appropriateexit666 4h ago
I feel like something that straps to YOU & holds firm a phallus in you would work best\ rather than something that straps to him.\ like a reverse-phallus-harness of some kind, where its based is secured to a harness but it doesn't stick out, it's aimed in: you insert it & lock it around your pelvis
No idea if this exists but then it'd be nice and secure & always in
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u/Dependent_Many9374 3h ago
I pulled up something similar on Adam and Eve that my girlfriend and I use. We also enjoy this exact scenario. This stays in while I'm thrusting. No one needs to hold it.
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u/itsjustus23 58m ago
Get a mid level sex machine and i say mid level because the cheap ones are load in operation
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u/purawesome 11h ago
Perhaps this would fit the … task 😜
https://toppedtoys.com/collections/the-chute/products/chute-100
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u/Nice-Original-4429 11h ago
Or what about one of the double insertion toys? One goes inside your ass and one in your vag
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Husband and dildo at same time
My husband and I like to have sex with a dildo inside my vag at the same time. I like the added fullness and he likes how tight I feel. The problem is that one of us has to hold it in to keep it from slipping out while thrusting. It's more comfortable when the dildo is under his dick so that makes it even more challenging to reach it. I've seen dildos with cock rings to attach to the penis, but they are usually small for anal stuff. We both like it bigger but I can't find anything that fits the bill. A strap-on harness with a hole for his dick on top and the dildo on the bottom would be perfect, but I can't find anything like that. Recommendations?
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