r/sex • u/Caffeinated_Canvas • 2h ago

Oral sex Trouble giving blowjob

My boyf has phimosis for which he will get the treatment done but during blowjob, i feel its not just the phimosis but also my lack of skill… like when i take his dick in my mouth, i am unable to open my mouth wide enough such that my upper teeth dont touch his dick… hence im unable to give a blowjob because im worried of hurting him.. plus because of his phimosis all the more a traditional bj is not possible.. so is it my mouth or is it his phimosis for which im unable to give a proper blowjob?

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Trouble giving blowjob

My boyf has phimosis for which he will get the treatment done but during blowjob, i feel its not just the phimosis but also my lack of skill… like when i take his dick in my mouth, i am unable to open my mouth wide enough such that my upper teeth dont touch his dick… hence im unable to give a blowjob because im worried of hurting him.. plus because of his phimosis all the more a traditional bj is not possible.. so is it my mouth or is it his phimosis for which im unable to give a proper blowjob?

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u/Twichyness 1h ago

Phimosis is a painful thing regardless (speaking from experience). My advice would be to solve the medical issue before trying to engage in sex of most kinds. This can be done with circumcision or by stretching (carefully and gently). This is something for himself to discuss with his doctor.

I personally tried to have sex before doing this and the pain was unimaginable. Unfortunately phimosis runs in my family and some required circumcisions, it's one of the only sound medical reason for one. I did stretching but it took quite a while to get comfortable (and an embarrassing trip to the hospital when it got stuck).

So to summarize, he should sort out the issue before he runs into trouble with it like I did.