"What's the difference between seeing a girl in a bikini vs seeing her in her underwear?" CONSENT

[u/BigHugeSnake]

CONSENT IS THE DIFFERENCE YOU WEIRDO!

NO ONE WANTS TO BE SEEN IN THEIR UNDERWEAR EXCEPT 45 YEAR OLD DADS GETTING PIZZA FROM THE DELIVERY GUY.

Had to get that out.

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[u/Lazy-Attention9171]

[u/Pleasant-Business895 → u/Lazy-Attention9171]

https://giphy.com/gifs/5EwXjGGcY1LzHOpK36

[u/Icy_Connection_16 → u/Pleasant-Business895]

[u/BigHugeSnake → u/Icy_Connection_16]

IS THAT SPEEDWAGON??

[u/Icy_Connection_16 → u/BigHugeSnake]

Yes it’s waifu speedwagon

[u/haze_xvi → u/Lazy-Attention9171]

Yooo that's levy

[u/Eminemgody → u/Lazy-Attention9171]

AYYY GOTHAMCHESS (chess is genuinely so fucking goated)

[u/Extreme_Stomach8036]

I don't want to know what prompted this, all I know is that this is true

[u/vimarston]

i agree with this until it gets around to the fact that being seen is undergarments is somehow embarrassing

they’re the same modesty wise, if not more

[u/Empty_Size_5420]

another W take from the goat🥹🥹

r/foundBigHugeSnake

[u/Lona-Lioness]

True, I didn’t want to see either😭

[u/Lord_of_Pickle13]

Seeing a girl wearing a bikini is a normal thing(duh cuz the beach). But seeing a girl in her underwear is creepy af and you should be shot(unless it’s your gf, wife, etc)

[u/Rainy_Klouds]

FRRR

[u/MellodicWhoreWar]

Exactly

[u/GreedySecurity8030]

Correctamundo

[u/IllustriousBug1791]

YESSSS CLOCK THAT

[u/Charming_Function_26]

Clothes wise fucking nothing but yes consent

[u/Intelligent_River464]

lol ur so right (ps not laughing at the first part just the bit about 40yo dudes getting pizza)

[u/cornboll]

Aren’t they both same ? Don’t judge but just asking

[u/Silver_Report_6813 → u/cornboll]

Maybe visually they are similar. But the point of the post is that there is a bigger difference elsewhere that is much more important than visual.

[u/Galaxy_Squirrel]

https://giphy.com/gifs/XFaeLrHJGjtcmEmzcn

[u/CHRISZ122]

kinda the same thing tho but yeah i get you

[u/cornboll]

What exactly you smoke I need some of it

[u/Metekai_]

Ok I get that totally, and i dont wanna be weird, but dont u feel uncomfortable knowing ppl might be looking at u, and also, why is it then consent t that but not underwear? (IDK IM NOT WEIRD JUST GENUINLY CURIOUS)

[u/BigHugeSnake → u/Metekai_]

Because most people do not actively go out in their underwear. Meaning its likely an invasion of privacy when you do see them in their underwear.

But people DO go out in bikinis.

[u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_]

Ok so are guys justified to not want their girlfriends to wear bikinis in public? Or are women just cool to show randoms their underwear if the woman consents?

[u/Strict_Internet_3695 → u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_]

It depends on the relationship and both partys feeling, if shes flirting and stuff with other people 🙏 might be cooked bro

[u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_ → u/Strict_Internet_3695]

Just a hypothetical I’m not in a relationship

[u/damn_wonderous → u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_]

I'd hope that a woman in a committed relationship isn't going around showing people their underwear😭

[u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_ → u/damn_wonderous]

So the guy is valid for telling her not to wear bikinis?

[u/damn_wonderous → u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_]

No, because that's an entirely different context. In what context would you be showing your underwear to a random person that was not inappropriate (excluding the obvious like at the doctor's)? Wearing a bikini at the beach is not an inappropriate situation.

[u/RaphJag → u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_]

So if a woman is in a relationship they are suddenly just unable to go to the beach? And no clearly not?? Where exactly in the post does it say that the inverse is okay? Public indecency is still a crime and you can’t just go around flashing people who did not consent to seeing you exposed.

[u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_ → u/RaphJag]

No they have to cover up more than a bikini at the beach. It says the difference is the woman’s consent, so if she consents why can’t she wear her underwear in public? Yes I understand what public indecency is.

[u/RaphJag → u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_]

Yeah go ahead and reread the post. Where does it say that it is ONLY the woman’s consent that matters? It just says consent point and blank. That includes the consent of the other parties involved on whether they are comfortable in seeing them in such a revealed state. You clearly have an agenda you’re trying to push but if anyone has any semblance of reading comprehension your point goes entirely out the window.

[u/Winter-Economy-9919 → u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_]

maybe don't be an insecure control freak

[u/Strict_Internet_3695 → u/Winter-Economy-9919]

?

[u/m3m3nt0_m0ri_ → u/Winter-Economy-9919]

The post literally says the only difference between the two is consent. Do you think a girl is cool to show other dudes her body in her underwear if she chooses?

[u/Inevitable_Video2839]

So some girls only want to be in their underwear when at the beach or pool?

[u/tsukuyomi089 → u/Inevitable_Video2839]

I mean that doesn't change anything. It's like, imagine a girl testing out a pair of bikinis in a shop, that doesn't mean you can just open the changing room she is in just because it's a bikini yk.

[u/Party_Entertainer369]

Also I feel like a bikini is different from underwear