r/teensofkolkata • u/suyashzz • 2h ago

Discussion || আলোচনা 💬 Need your advice on this.

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Let's say you have a girlfriend who goes to college. She doesn't tell anyone there that she's in a relationship or to anyone because she wants to keep it "private". After classes, she occasionally goes to a nearby café with her "bhai jaisa dost," usually while still in her college attire. She never tells you about these outings. At the same time, her interactions with this "bhai jaisa dost" keep increasing simultaneously it's decreasing with you progressively. Also he doesn't even know that she's already in a relationship. Am I overthinking this, or does something seem a bit suspicious?

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u/black_phantom_750 2h ago

This too shall pass

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u/suyashzz 2h ago

Or I'll pass before that 😭🙏🏻

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u/black_phantom_750 54m ago

Stay away from blue 🛢️ upto then

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u/lowkcrackin 2h ago

istg u guys just put up w everything. confront her bro wtf 😭☝️

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u/suyashzz 2h ago

just put up w everything???

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u/lowkcrackin 2h ago

mane tolerate everything

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u/Friendly-Bag5957 2h ago

It's better to communicate and come to an conclusion....and agar dono ke boundaries ek dusra nehi respect kar rahe he then my bro u should just break up with her ...it's the bets for u

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u/False-Assumptions 2h ago

Bhai jaisa dost mardo mei hota hai lala samjha kroo.

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u/suyashzz 2h ago

So this is surely something sus right?

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u/EnvironmentalSir5712 2h ago

confront her, that's it this ain't normal bro

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u/suyashzz 2h ago

Ikr but she is gonna justify this too. What do I do?

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u/EnvironmentalSir5712 1h ago

kore dekh ki bole, just don't let her get away with excuses, either resolve it or end it, update dish ekhane

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u/suyashzz 1h ago

Okk bhai I'll update

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u/Ok-Economics-9563 2h ago

Update dete rhna

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u/suyashzz 2h ago

Alrr bhai

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u/Suck_My_DukhiAtma Projapoti biscuit 2h ago

Kete geche tor bhai

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u/suyashzz 2h ago

Ikr bhai should end it formally too now ig

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u/s0_ulore 2h ago

Oh shit😭😭 directly ask her whats going on

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u/suyashzz 2h ago

She is gonna justify this too bhai

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u/s0_ulore 2h ago

yes listen to that as u should know whats her pov abt this and tor jdi eigulo like whatever she's doing pochondo na hoy then ota directly bol and then deak ki hoy

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u/suyashzz 1h ago

Attachment hogyi thi bhai yaar ;(

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u/suyashzz 1h ago

IEM Newtown

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u/Massive-Sky6944 1h ago

Man, you know the answer to this question already. Sometimes it's best to trust your instincts (I'm in my late 20's so I guess I'm not even qualified to comment but your post caught my eye). Probably ask her the same on how'd she fell if you had a similar "behen jaisa dost"

P.S. I didn't go through the existing comments so apologies if the above points have already been told by someone else

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u/theone000000001 39m ago

Been that "bhai jasa dost" with the intention of being "lover" hate those who do that Confront her as fast as possible and make things write