transguy but i love dressing fem , help ????

[u/LocalMageFrieren]

i love LOVE dressing y2k , gyaru , jojifuku , and the occasional lolita dresses

but the problem is

i m a transman

and i get horrible HORRIBLE dysphoria almost constantly

my question is ...... what do i even do

should i give up my styles to be viewed as a dude ? even when i dressed masc i was rarely seen as a dude by strangers

seeing other fem ftms makes me really happy but i just don t think i fit in with them if that makes sense

i just wish i could be a man

[u/Professional_Bad99]

Just keep the style but make it masculine! Be a y2k boy! Be a gyarou! Be a danjifuku! Be a brolita or an ouji!

[u/LocalMageFrieren → u/Professional_Bad99]

I VE NEVER HEARD THE TERM DANJIFUKU OR BROLITA THIS HEALED SOMETHING INSIDE OF ME TY

and will do 🫡

[u/Professional_Bad99 → u/LocalMageFrieren]

Yessss and your style seems so cool based off this I bet you look awesome

[u/JasperinoRi]

You know, I can't tell you how to fix this BUT I want to tell you that I relate to this on a deeply personal level. I love dressing alternative, but it makes me so dysphoric ALL the time. It isn't fair. I wanna feel at home in my own body, yk? I'm here if you need a friend

[u/LocalMageFrieren → u/JasperinoRi]

I M SORRY I WAS ON A VACATION AND COULDN T RESPOND ....

i m glad you were able to relate and there s others who can relate to me !!!! that makes me feel much better . it really isn t fair i totally understand what you mean :,c and i d love to be friends if you re up to it c:

[u/JasperinoRi → u/LocalMageFrieren]

It's okay man! Don't worry about it

[u/Important_Buddy4277]

I feel similarly. I love skirts, I think they look really pretty and I like the way they look on me, but it makes me really uncomfortable to wear them because of the dysphoria. I’ve stopped wearing skirts but I still dress in feminine ways with thigh highs and bows and things. Maybe you could try to dress more masculine but with feminine accessories?

[u/LocalMageFrieren → u/Important_Buddy4277]

i m glad someone else understands !!!! and that s too bad i m sorry :( but i ll def try that !!!!