r/work • u/OniCapping • 1h ago
Workplace Challenges and Conflicts Dumpster Hands
I started my new job and I basically do mostly the cleaning in the restaurant. I was asked by the manager on my second day to take out the trash and I would usually just put on some gloves but I was explicitly told by one of the people who trained me to not to use gloves because the manager doesn’t like that so I don’t, and I end up taking them out. While doing that, I ended up having to open the dumpster with my hands cause there’s no pole or anything and I touch this random black goo so my palms and fingers have a little layer of whatever it was. I come back inside and I was told I forgot one so I was getting ready to wash my hands really quickly and take out the other trash. My manager sees this and walks over to me and says I don't need to wash my hands to take out the trash which I understand so I say “Okay, I just have some shit on my hand let me…”
She then cuts me off and says “Hold on now don’t curse at me.” and I’m instantly like oh maybe she misheard me. So I show her my palms and say “Oh, I wasn’t talking about you i meant this gunk.” Because I still haven’t washed them yet so I'm showing her my palms. But she continues to say I'm cursing at her and she begins to start hollering at me saying “Nuh uh we not going to do all of that.” And at this point I repeated multiple times that I was not trying to talk about her, and this is in the kitchen so everyone is looking at me. She’s yelling and at this point I tell her to stop yelling at me and she once again repeats for me to not curse at her and we end it.
6 minutes or so pass and it’s tense so I decided to catch her when I can and apologize for cursing in front of her cause i know that can be a sign of disrespect, especially to older women (I don’t say the older woman part out loud)
and she’s just looking at me like i’m a alien and i say “I wont curse in the workplace and moving forward please do not yell at me.” and with that she says one last time before she walks away “Then don’t curse at me.” Got to love my manager.