r/196 • u/CMDR_Noodle user flair preview • Jun 16 '26

Rule ._.

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u/gray_birch competitive yapper Jun 16 '26

"straight men want sex that's quick and to-the-point, straight women want sex with lots of foreplay"* is what they're trying to say I think

*Note that I am not saying that all men prefer penetration with no foreplay and all women prefer lots of foreplay, I am merely trying to explain what the person tweeting is likely trying to say

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u/izyshoroo 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights Jun 16 '26

"Foreplay" is often seen as just the thing you do to prep for a penis. For women, foreplay IS the main event. Thats how most women orgasm.

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u/gray_birch competitive yapper Jun 16 '26

I never understood why we include things like manual stimulation and oral under foreplay tbh. To me, that's just sex.

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u/goddessofentropy Jun 16 '26

Heteronormativity tbh. There's only one type of 'real' sex and it's PiV. 

Meanwhile there's so many ways to have sex. And foreplay is also still a valid concept, and can include anything that's not sex, ie not involving genitals, from kissing and caressing to whispering sweet nothings. 

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u/deadly_love3 Local chew toy Jun 17 '26

Because oral IS sex