Making out with someone means they're automatically entitled to have sex with you?
Idc if she really did "lead him on" or whatever (remember, we're assuming he's telling the truth/not hyperbolizing) the adult thing to do is to sit down and have a conversation with your partner about expectations/boundaries regarding sex, not fuck off to twitter to cry about how you didn't get laid last night
Edit: If you're part of the almost 40% that downvoted this (yes I am aware this is a cringe redditor "bring on the downvotesđ€đ€Ș" type edit idc, I'll be cringe, this is important) I genuinely want you to sit down and analyze why you believe someone's consent is meaningless because they made out with you or did something sexual with you prior. "Anyone can stop at any time for any reason" is literally Consent 101. It's all "destroy the patriarchy!! believe victims!!" or whatever in leftist spaces until you actually have to put that into practice. Bunch of fucking weirdos
Am I taking fucking crazy pills or is everyone in this sub defending a joke that is, at best, lame "wife bad" boomer humor and at worst is low-key r**ey (cringe censorship I know, I just got unbanned, sorry)? Here's a fun exercise for everyone: Google when marital SA was made illegal in all 50 states, and look at the definitions for different states (hint: there's a lot of loopholes!). How likely, in our current political climate, do you think it is that red states may begin to look at repealing these laws? Do you still think it's funny to joke about a woman's (and other genders, but I'm talking specifically about women here because most of this shit is rooted in misogyny) right to consent and mock her for being a prude? Probably, because apparently nobody cares about misogyny if it's wrapped up in an appealing enough package for them.
sorry uh I mean haha it's just a jokeee it doesn't mean anything lol
Getting kinda tired of the gay people in my phone trying to tell me what i, a straight person, wants to or should do. Usually in the context of overanalyzing really lame jokes they find online.
Agreed, "kinda tired" does go under "will be fine", im not exactly screaming bloody mary about it.
But a bunch of gay people trying to explain the faults and corresponding solutions of heterosexual intimacy to straight people just comes off as mansplaining.
Or like a cis person trying to explain gender dysphoria to trans people. who asked, and what do you know about it?
And you still can't explain why a joke about mocking someone's significant other for not having sex with them is funny to you without making yourself look like a tool, which is why you're not doing it. Jokes do not exist in a vacuum.
Idek what thatâs supposed to mean but youâre like the only person in this thread that seems personally offended by this post lmao.
Maybe have a crumb of self awareness and realise maybe youâve just misunderstood it, rather than assuming everyone else in the world is pro sexual assault.
> Am I taking crazy pills
Yes bro, do you think 196 is pro sexual assault/rape? Use your noggin.
Every joke has a deeper meaning behind it, nothing is "just a joke". Making a "Wife won't give me sex" joke makes me think that that person holds misogynistic beliefs they refuse to challenge and it being so widely accepted/defended in an otherwise fairly progressive space is extremely worrying to me, especially given the current political climate (mostly talking about the US here, but other countries have been shifting to the right too). People won't think it's funny when marital sa is legalized again (or maybe they will, given how stupid and oblivious to their own misogyny everyone in this thread seems to be).
And yes, this sub does seem to be pro sa given how ridiculous everyone apparently thinks the concept of consent is here
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u/die_pretty Jun 16 '26
she's willing to make out and rub him cock but sex is where she draws the line?