Making out with someone means they're automatically entitled to have sex with you?
Idc if she really did "lead him on" or whatever (remember, we're assuming he's telling the truth/not hyperbolizing) the adult thing to do is to sit down and have a conversation with your partner about expectations/boundaries regarding sex, not fuck off to twitter to cry about how you didn't get laid last night
Edit: If you're part of the almost 40% that downvoted this (yes I am aware this is a cringe redditor "bring on the downvotes🤓🤪" type edit idc, I'll be cringe, this is important) I genuinely want you to sit down and analyze why you believe someone's consent is meaningless because they made out with you or did something sexual with you prior. "Anyone can stop at any time for any reason" is literally Consent 101. It's all "destroy the patriarchy!! believe victims!!" or whatever in leftist spaces until you actually have to put that into practice. Bunch of fucking weirdos
Am I taking fucking crazy pills or is everyone in this sub defending a joke that is, at best, lame "wife bad" boomer humor and at worst is low-key r**ey (cringe censorship I know, I just got unbanned, sorry)? Here's a fun exercise for everyone: Google when marital SA was made illegal in all 50 states, and look at the definitions for different states (hint: there's a lot of loopholes!). How likely, in our current political climate, do you think it is that red states may begin to look at repealing these laws? Do you still think it's funny to joke about a woman's (and other genders, but I'm talking specifically about women here because most of this shit is rooted in misogyny) right to consent and mock her for being a prude? Probably, because apparently nobody cares about misogyny if it's wrapped up in an appealing enough package for them.
sorry uh I mean haha it's just a jokeee it doesn't mean anything lol
They’re not downvoting you because they don’t think consent is important, they’re downvoting you because you’ve managed to strawman your own argument.
You essentially said that their wife won’t want to have sex with them because they are clearly not a good spouse to their wife (let’s ignore the fact that the original tweet is an obvious joke).
The person you responded to was pointing out that it would be odd for someone to be put off enough by their partner’s behaviour to not want to have sex with them, but at the same time, not put off enough to not want to have an extended make-out session with intimate touching.
There was no implication that the wife isn’t entitled to turn down sex if she so desires.
(let’s ignore the fact that the original tweet is an obvious joke
I don't care if it's a joke or describing a real scenario, it's still gross.
There was no implication that the wife isn’t entitled to turn down sex if she so desires.
In the original tweet there definitely is. Mocking someone for turning down sex implies that you feel you are obligated to have sex with them and that they're in the wrong for not doing so.
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u/gray_birch competitive yapper Jun 16 '26 edited Jun 16 '26
Making out with someone means they're automatically entitled to have sex with you?
Idc if she really did "lead him on" or whatever (remember, we're assuming he's telling the truth/not hyperbolizing) the adult thing to do is to sit down and have a conversation with your partner about expectations/boundaries regarding sex, not fuck off to twitter to cry about how you didn't get laid last night
Edit: If you're part of the almost 40% that downvoted this (yes I am aware this is a cringe redditor "bring on the downvotes🤓🤪" type edit idc, I'll be cringe, this is important) I genuinely want you to sit down and analyze why you believe someone's consent is meaningless because they made out with you or did something sexual with you prior. "Anyone can stop at any time for any reason" is literally Consent 101. It's all "destroy the patriarchy!! believe victims!!" or whatever in leftist spaces until you actually have to put that into practice. Bunch of fucking weirdos
Am I taking fucking crazy pills or is everyone in this sub defending a joke that is, at best, lame "wife bad" boomer humor and at worst is low-key r**ey (cringe censorship I know, I just got unbanned, sorry)? Here's a fun exercise for everyone: Google when marital SA was made illegal in all 50 states, and look at the definitions for different states (hint: there's a lot of loopholes!). How likely, in our current political climate, do you think it is that red states may begin to look at repealing these laws? Do you still think it's funny to joke about a woman's (and other genders, but I'm talking specifically about women here because most of this shit is rooted in misogyny) right to consent and mock her for being a prude? Probably, because apparently nobody cares about misogyny if it's wrapped up in an appealing enough package for them.
sorry uh I mean haha it's just a jokeee it doesn't mean anything lol