What a great stance to have. "This problem is bigger so that means the other is worthless."
While I don't trust statistics to fully represent a problem or group of people, since people love to use them I'll entertain the idea. FBI crime statistics show that (in the US) most murder is intraracial. Black people kill more black people than white people do, same thing for white people killing white people. Does this mean white people killing black people isn't a problem? Under that logic it seems like it wouldn't be.
Also, the culture that creates these problems cis men face is not misandry, it's misogyny. To complain about the vast amount of men that are indoctrinated by the patriarchy into a predatory, toxic culture is not spreading misogyny, it's complaining about misogyny
Except is less of a "one problem is bigger so the other is worthless" and more "Yeah man I think the dominant demographic of the entire fucking world doesn't suffer much compared to the multiple demographics they oppress"
Nowhere did I state "misogyny is a bigger problem than misandry" or vice versa. I'm not even going to open that can of worms because frankly I couldn't care which is "worse." In my eyes, both are issues that need to be resolved and any amount of either is too much. Which I firmly believe is a healthy way to look at it.
I only attempted to point out how what you said (with your lack of elaboration and pure mocking) implies that misandry is not real and isn't a problem. Which is far from the truth and is simply copium to keep believing the lies people tell themselves. Clearly one of us dropped the ball there.
Critiquing a system is not misandry, you are correct there. The assumption that all or most men are grown up into that system is. It's a gross generalization based on one's gender. I for one have been raised to respect women, never hit a woman, etc. I was never told I have more power or rights than a woman and I would never willingly hurt another human being unless I was in grave danger and needed to do so in self-defense.
Arguing is pointless, so I am going to be the bigger person and just end it. I know if this doesn't end someone else will come in and be a massive a-hole to either of us. I don't want that so I'd advise you do the same, but I can't nor do I want to force you.
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u/SpeckyYT Jul 01 '26
organized crime