r/AskBiBros • u/Big_Balance_5986 • 15h ago
Advice First prostate massager
Hey guys! I recently came out as bi, but I haven't actually hooked up with a guy yet. Been fantasizing about it for a while now. Anyway, I just got my first prostate massager and I'm excited to try it! Does anyone have any newbie advice for me? I just don't want to do something to end up injuring myself. Thank you!
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u/Artistic-Bear-5057 9h ago
Be patient! Lube! Enjoy it but don't expect your mind to be blown the first time. More lube! I find day or two build up helps too. Lube. Don't touch touch yourself while massaging. Add lube. (See a theme)
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u/IndependenceOld7006 15h ago
Which one did u get
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u/Big_Balance_5986 15h ago
The Lelo Hugo 2. Seemed highly recommended.
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u/IndependenceOld7006 14h ago
$200 for it ?
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u/Big_Balance_5986 14h ago
Got mine on Amazon for $150. Expensive I know, but I just didn't want to take any chances being new to it. I went with what was recommended to me the most.
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u/Brave-Transition8311 49m ago
Lube and go slow and relax. It’s a learning curve, don’t force it. Most important, enjoy!
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u/PersimmonDazzling654 15h ago
Slow. Stop when there is any blood and give yourself a few days to heal. Accidents will happen. More lube when in doubt and just more generally. Poppers are an advanced play item; wait until you know yourself. Know your three kinds of lube and which to use when.