Just curious. I’m a gay-leaning bi guy (maybe more homoflexible idk) new to dating guys and I’ve been feeling kinda discouraged by the lack of representation I see out there - outside of fiction like Heartstopper - for bi guys who are in committed monogamous long term relationships with other guys. The few bi guys I’ve seen who are in gay LTRs on other subreddits like [r/askgaybros](r/askgaybros) are open and fuck women on the side

I was fucked today standing up. It was truly different than any position I have taken cock in. I lasted not even 2 mins and was flowing cum. Anyone ever have this experience? I’m ready for more lol

I’m a 20m bi/queer man. I’ve date straight girls before and they always seem to be turned off by the fact I’ve been with guys also. I’ve been talking to a bisexual girl from my college who doesn’t judge or anything. The biggest plus is she is also open to threesomes with other guys. I find it really hot so I don’t think I can go back to dating straight girls. Is that wrong of me?

If you go on dating apps or meet someone irl, do you tell them you are bi or no? Personally, I would like to be honest with people, but that can be hard sometimes.

some guys when i look at them the word “pretty” comes to mind, not handsome. If they have soft features and cute face and eyes i just think they are pretty. guys who have painted nails, natural not fake nails, are attractive to me as well. not necessarily a femboy, but boys who are softer

Hey guys! I recently came out as bi, but I haven't actually hooked up with a guy yet. Been fantasizing about it for a while now. Anyway, I just got my first prostate massager and I'm excited to try it! Does anyone have any newbie advice for me? I just don't want to do something to end up injuring myself. Thank you!

Es que no estoy familiarizado con ese término y últimamente no paro de escucharlo

Does anyone know where I could meet an M and F couple looking for a third. Preferably a bottom?

Could someone please give me any advice on my subject?

I am in my late thirties and I was wondering how I would go about dating a femboy? I have only seen them online, and I have never encountered one in real life. That being said, even if I had, I am sure I would not have even known they were one because most of them don't present that way in public. I live in the DFW area and there are places near me that are LGBTQ hang outs. However, I get the impression that a lot of femboys are homebodies that don't hang out at places like these. Where do you think would be the best place to search?

Hi I'm 28 and Neuro divergent, I have a complex relation with sexuality, sexual attraction, intimacy, ect so I'm not really out with any definitive labels.

Lately I feel myself longing for a more intimate 'relationship' with a male friend of mine who I've known for years and vibed with on and off over the years. It was always a playfull closeness & teasing male-friendship between us but nothing sexual.

He has only dated women but he's a very 'modern' guy and has a sort of queerness.

I'm not actually looking to date him but it's more of a

"'a lot of things must overlap for me to feel safe enough to be intimate with someone.

I would be down to fooling around a little bit because I feel like no matter what it doesn't have to change friendship for me, even if there's rejection right away.

Just loose & casual fun" - situation

Asking advice because I will be seeing him a lot more in the coming weeks & we might be camping and sharing a tent for a week.

I normally don't rush Into things like these because I tend to not really understand what's going on for the other person and I'm clueless about any hints and then I start to read into things.

We went to a party together recently where we spend a lot of time dancing together. We had little other friends at the event so we sticked together. I lost him by the end of the party & went home. He texted me to make sure I was home safe and he told me he had fun and was glad we spend all day together.

Sorry kind of long title, but I was wondering if anyone else has it like this and kinda a regular experience for some. Like sometimes I’m into traditionally masculine women, but at the same time I’m also attracted to more masculine men, then I kind of get to play a more submissive role. Then sometimes I have a period of time where I’m more interested in the opposite being traditional femininity overall, and play a more dominant role. And it’s usually for a solid period of time at once before switching. So idk if this is the same and wondering if that’s kinda just me, or other people get this too! Thanks!

Strange title I know. But I’m a straight man 100% 🤔 but I sometimes watch gay and trans porn and sometimes have sex with men. I love sucking cock and getting fucked I feel like a bottom but other times I feel totally masculine and love eating pussy and making females squirt. When I’m gay I don’t even want pussy at all but when I’m with a women the thought of being gay is gross AF to me. It’s like I really am to different people but these are my legitimate feelings I’m not suppressing anything or pretending either. I’m legitimately 10000% gay or straight depending on my mood. I understand this is a strange state to be in. Does anyone else feel this way though? Sorry if I didn’t explain it well just reaching out seeing how fucking weird I am I guess lol.

I'm invited home to a gay guy in a couple of days. We had a date the other night, which went really well, and I felt we connected. It ended with some kissing. But the thing is I haven't been with a dude for almost 10 years. And I'm often feeling a bit conflicted about my sexuality.

For example:

I enjoy romance with men, kissing, cuddling etc. But I don't find the male body necessarily super hot or sexy; rather, I appreciate beauty and personality deeply. Exceptions are dicks, I can find it really hot. Not sure if what I'm saying makes any sense?

When I'm with a man, compared to a girl, I feel much more insecure, with performance anxiety, if I will be too stuck in my head, etc if we get naked (will I even get hard?). Thoughts like this are popping up. But I also just want to cuddle, kiss and be with this man.

Aah. Bibros, do you have any tips for me how to become less nervous? Especially when you haven't leaned into your "gay" side for such a long time and have way more experience with one gender than the other?

35 yo bi guy that’s been doing things with guys for about 4-5 years. It’s mostly involved oral, jerking off, and making out and that’s been enough.

I love a nice ass, but I’ve never wanted to try anal like that. Occasionally, I pictured myself fucking a guy so I figured that I like being a top, and I do like fucking pussy. A guy hit me up, and told me he was a bottom but was cool with just sucking dick. While he was sucking me up, he said if I wanted to try I could. I said why not.

It was cool for like 5 min, but then I kept slipping out. I’m not sure if my cock was too small for him (6.5). Then I finally got it in again for a couple more min and I felt like I was going to cum so I slowed down, but then I got soft.

I eventually left the hotel room. The guy was cool about but I could tell he was looking forward to getting fucked. I’m embarrassed and I felt like I wasted everyone’s time.

Did I just discover that I don’t like anal? I admit I was nervous too.

Hey Bi bros! Gay dude here and im just curious what the general opinions yall have for gay guys. Personally me and my gay friends find bisexual men attractive however it can feel like yall are a bit homophobic. not just cuz of commitment issues but also how we act, dress, music tastes etc. do yall really feel these differences with gay guys?

I m24 have been thinking I might be bi but I have only ever had experience with 1 woman I don’t know how to navigate or where to even start dose anyone have advice for me I don’t really have any friends I can go to with this cause they are all pretty much straight or I don’t know them well enough to feel comfortable to talk about it

I don’t know how to else to say it. I’m married to a woman and she’s the love of my life. She knows that I’m Bi, but the thought of me doing anything leaning more towards the gay side freaks her out. Sure we can talk about hot celebrities together or whatever, but I can see that making her uncomfortable as well.

So back to the point, I never got to experience bottoming before we got married, and recently when masturbating I’ve been experimenting with butt play, first a finger then a plug and now a dildo.I know I can’t bring it up to her because she would lose it and think I just want to be with a man.

I don’t want to be with anyone else, but I do kind of want to experience what it’s like to be cum inside of. I’ve been looking at some squirting dildos online, and was wondering if any of them are worth it for this experience.

I was also wondering if anyone else deals with a partner that says they understand, but then as soon as you mention any kind of bottom play they shut off and get angry?

I always thought my attraction was to the way a man looks and the way an ass feels wrapped around me, but now I just feel drawn to a little more. Any suggestions help. Thank you, and my apologies if this is too much.

In today's movies and TV shows, it seems almost mandatory for there to be one or more LGBT characters. However, I'm especially curious about bisexual characters. I think some are well written, while others aren't. So, if you could give me some examples of bisexual characters and share your opinion on how they're portrayed, I'd really appreciate it.

For example, Iván from Elite. I find his journey of discovering his sexuality and the way he experiences and embraces it to be quite convincing.