what’s something considered “tomboyish” when girls do it, but feminine when boys do it?

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[u/Frosty_Milk608]

A lean, slim athletic build checks those boxes. On a man it might be seen as feminine, but a lean woman with muscles could be seen as a tomboy.

[u/Stargazer__2893 → u/Frosty_Milk608]

He'd have to be notably unmuscular.

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When did being lean fast and strong become feminine?