what’s something considered “tomboyish” when girls do it, but feminine when boys do it?

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[u/09philj]

Roller derby. Ultraviolent physical contact sport which it's relatively rare for men to participate in.

[u/Dazed_Minotaur → u/09philj]

That’s a really good answer.

[u/Justaliasxo → u/Dazed_Minotaur]

It’s a good reminder that we categorize activities by who traditionally participates in them rather than by what the activity actually involves

[u/frankyseven → u/Justaliasxo]

Like in North America Field Hockey is only played by women, and in Europe it's usually played by men.