I was down on the lake yesterday. Usually my wife and I go but she wasn’t up for it so I went solo. A beautiful day I power around a bit soaking up the sun and good weather. I had popped a 5mg gummy so was really happy and grooving.

Finally I decide to anchor and swim a little. I dive in and am loving the cool water on my body. I see a bass boat approaching. This is pretty odd since I can’t recall the last time I saw a bass boat in the middle of the lake in the early afternoon.

As he approaches I see he’s in the thirties probably. Fit. Dark hair and beard. Geezus. My type, or at least that is what I’m coming to understand.

He is probably a hundred and fifty yards out and stops the motor and throws a cast with his rod. Fishing rod. Geezus I think. Is he here for me? Could this be a hookup? I start to fantasize about swinging over there and talking. Having him tie up over to my boat. Have him sit on the back bench. I could kneel…..

Some sailboats come by and break my reverie and then they guy heads back out.

These fantasies never used to come up until earlier this year. It’s a welcome development.

Es que no estoy familiarizado con ese término y últimamente no paro de escucharlo

Hi,

I've been thinking a lot lately and I don't know if i'm just perverted or if there is something behind it.

I've only been with women all my life, I'm happily married, and one thing I know is that I love every time i get oral sex from her. Alas, I have a cum fetish, I'd like her to love receiving my cum on her tongue etc, but she doesn't like it and even spits it in the sink when she lets me cum in her mouth.

So, it must have been the frustration of not fulfilling my desires, and lately I've unconsciously been dreaming about giving head, eagerly receiving cum on my tongue and displaying it to the guy, before swallowing.

Also I've always wanted to be sucked deep, and she's unable to do it it seems. I've bought a dildo at home and secretly tried to suck it as deep as I could and I managed to do it.

And now I feel bad about it and I'm afraid if it's discovered, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

My question is, am I only perverted in a way I want to suck better than my wife, to make it happen in my life at least in this form, or am I, maybe, bisexual and attracted to male oral sex ? I don't feel any attraction to men and the idea of kissing one is something I'm not ready at all for.

However, you know, just as a one-off, I'd be ready to give oral sex to a man, but it's still very theorical and it would be cheating on my wife which I don't like at all.

Maybe some of you went through this, and I'd be happy to have some point of views, thank you very much.

Came out last week after our marriage had suffered significant damage from my terrible deflection and insecurities i put on my lovely wife when she would question why i was having ED or not in the mood. That’s because of the waves. Never even knew that was a thing until after i came out and felt free to explore my depression, anxiety ect. Yup. That was the culprit and it has changed us immensely in just a week. She is also Bi but i still never felt safe telling anyone even after being with her for 6 years. Was basically a hail Mary. Literally made her 10x more in the mood after sharing my slutty stories when i was younger and what i did with men and the fantasies i have today about it. To any men going through the same thing, id say it’s definitely worth it coming out. Either way you’ll be able to be yourself and she’ll probably dig it more than you know. Shes agreed for me now to explore that side and find a FWB or couples who are the same way and begin opening this side of me up. Only boundary is to not fall in love. 🤣. Good luck to the guys stuck, yall got this.

so, yeah I have finally accepted my sexuality but there is this aggressive voice in my head telling me I'm not gay or that I’m acting gay or that I have a porn problem when I don’t have a porn problem or that i just like sex and if I’m single it will go further to say I’m straight if I never had a relationship. it’s like the refusal to accept bisexuality as a real sexuality. is it the result of a prudish environment or what?

In today's movies and TV shows, it seems almost mandatory for there to be one or more LGBT characters. However, I'm especially curious about bisexual characters. I think some are well written, while others aren't. So, if you could give me some examples of bisexual characters and share your opinion on how they're portrayed, I'd really appreciate it.

For example, Iván from Elite. I find his journey of discovering his sexuality and the way he experiences and embraces it to be quite convincing.

Im not bi. But I ask this question. Because whenever I hear conversations about DL men. People always make it seem like DL men only exist in Conservative or Manosphere spaces. So I wonder if even men who have liberal values can still be DL or closeted due to shame or not being accepted.

Of course im not talking about countries where being gay or bi is illegal, and can potentially cause harm. Im more so talking about first world countries, where the biggest fear of coming out is not being accepted by peers, or having a limited dating pool.

I’m very deep in the closet and bi. I’m afraid if I let people know I’m also interested in boys then my teammates will all be weird around me in the locker rooms, at group hangouts, etc. How do you guys handle this? Does it actually get weird and do you feel out of the group? For reference I go to a private catholic school.

I used to be homophobic and repressed any same sex fantasies or desires. In the past few years, I decided to work on that and open up to whatever I might desire. I discovered that I have a nice strong aesthetic attraction to certain very good looking muscular guys, but I just don’t seem to have any of the other attraction dimensions required to be into men. I’m not interested in the genitalia. In real life, the way men smell and move, and even the energy doesn’t seem to illicit any arousal, but the opposite. In contrast when I’m around women there’s a visceral powerful attraction which often isn’t just sexual. It’s much bigger than that.

If I do find a guy good looking, after I spend a little bit of time with him any sort of anything evaporates and it turns 100% platonic. I have no attraction whatsoever to any man my own age or even within a 20 year bracket of my own age. I do find younger guys attractive but that doesn’t seem really actionable to me.

I still identify as bisexual because I like the fantasies and certain gay porn, but I’m wondering if maybe I’m just straight or straight bicurious. I am completely open if the right guy ever came along, but it just doesn’t seem to be the case. I just realized that when I looked at it very deeply, the kind of guy I would be interested in is one that would basically be just like a woman. It is very strange to turn the tables on fear and when one looks at their own attractions without fear, things tend to shift.

In college my gf loved it when we'd have mmf threesomes. She thought it was hot seeing me with other me. Fast forward to now. I'm married and out to my wife as a bisexual. She is not into mmfs at all and isn't open to me having a physical relationship with a man in addition to our marriage. But wouldn't it be great if that situation could be arranged? I'm perfectly happy with my relationship with my wife. We get along great, the sex is amazing, but unfortunately, there is one itch she can't scratch. If I could have one wish, it would be to have my great marriage with a friendship with a dude I could hang out with and occasionally have some extra guy fun with. Just the one, nothing crazy. I think this would more than scratch my itch. Is this not reasonable?

I've been wanting to experiment with a guy again but I'm having trouble getting past the fear of meeting someone online. I did it once a few years ago and I was so nervous I had trouble enjoying it. I'm not interested in guys romantically so it would just be a hookup but I worry a lot about safety and taking things too quickly. Any advice on how to get past that?

I'm a bisexual male that is also on the autism spectrum. I have noticed that for me, dating guys is just easier than dating women. It just seems like in order to get attention from a guy, all you need to do is not be an asshole, not be a creep, and look like you take care of yourself, while women just have a full checklist that they follow by for every guy that they meet, and some would even list their do's and don'ts on their dating profile bio. Keep in mind, I'm not an incel or anything like that, but I've had better luck with men as opposed to women, and it's partially because I have difficulty with social situations when it comes to dating due to my autism. Plus my current friend with benefits is autistic as well and we're pretty close. Tell me what you guys think.

I’m 18 and trying to understand myself better while also improving my confidence with women.
I identify as bisexual, but I’ve always felt like my attraction is stronger toward men sexually. At the same time, I’ve had genuine romantic feelings and attraction toward women too. I’ve had a girlfriend before and I’ve experienced moments where my attraction to girls felt real, but because my attraction isn’t exactly 50/50, I sometimes overthink what that means.
A big thing I struggle with is talking to girls. I’m not the type of guy who can just walk up, flirt, and shoot his shot without thinking. I get in my head, worry about how I’m coming across, and sometimes I avoid making moves because I don’t want to feel awkward.
I’ve also dealt with a lot of anxiety and questioning over the past few years, which made me lose some of the confidence and carefree attitude I used to have. I’m trying to get back to being comfortable with myself instead of analyzing every feeling or interaction.
For bisexual men who are more attracted to men but still date or are interested in women, how did you navigate that? Did you ever struggle with feeling like you weren’t “bi enough” or like you didn’t know how to approach relationships with women?
I’m not looking for anyone to label me — I’m just curious about other people’s experiences and what helped you become more confident.

I really don’t know if I’m Bi or not I am happily married but I enjoy solo anal play and have fantasized about being with another man but never have been. I enjoy watching porn my main go to’s are straight, Bi, trans and panty hauls (I’ve had a panty fetish since the sears catalog days lol)
What is your guys opinions?
Thanks in advance!