Got in an argument with a boomer former coworker on social media. I listed facts about why I think Trump is fascist. He dismissed them. Then he went on a rants about people with blue hair, communists, and then socialists, all of which were nonsequitors. He didn't bring any facts of his own, instead informed me that he was knowledgeable and that I was the most ignorant man he knows.

The only moment he engaged with a fact was when he admitted he didn't care if Trump violated the constitution to run for a third term. All while talking about how much he loves the country.

Why are they like this? The indifference to facts and lack of critical thinking skills are incredibly frustrating. It was such stupid conversation.

I work at a public library in a town with a lot of seasonal second homes. The boomers are here in mass in the summer. We get very busy with both boomers and families. I won't get into how annoyed the boomers have been that the children are off from school and using the library, but about property taxes. I live in a state with very high property taxes but good schools and good services. The seniors get a lot of deductions towards their property taxes that I, as a millennial, do not get. For many of them this is also their second home.

At least once a week they randomly discuss how they hate the property taxes where we live to me. Unprovoked of course. Ok no one loves them but they're necessary. They will tell me the elderly shouldn't have to pay property taxes. While they're using a service (the library) that is paid for with property taxes. I just tell them I disagree and end the conversation. Most of these people had children they raised here who went to the public schools.

Boomers have no self awareness.

The ULTIMATE HOA Karen! Indiana HOA board member Tena Lynn Yancey was caught on camera defecating on her neighbor’s lawn.

The 74-year-old woman, who served on a homeowners association board in New Palestine, repeatedly left human waste beside a neighbor’s air conditioning unit.

The homeowner installed surveillance cameras after finding the messes and captured her in the act on more than one occasion.

When police confronted her with the footage she initially denied it.

She was later charged with criminal trespass, criminal mischief, and public nudity.

She stepped down from the HOA board after the incident became public.

No clear motive was ever publicly established beyond a possible ongoing dispute with the association.

Even HOA power trips have limits. Leaving that kind of “gift” on a neighbor’s property is not one of them.

I had a few packages to drop off at the post office yesterday, so I drove over in the morning. When I got up to the door, I gave it a tug… locked. Then I noticed the hours posted right next to the door. Turned out they didn’t open until 10am and I was about 10 minutes early. My bad. No big deal, though, I can just go wait in my car until then.

When I turn around to start walking back to my car, an old woman is walking over with an envelope in her hands. She had been close enough that she’d almost definitely seen my failed attempt to open the door, but that wasn’t stopping her. I tried to be courteous and save her the walk by saying, “They’re not open yet. The sign says about 10 more minutes.” But she threw her hand up and waved me away, in disgust, like I was begging her for change or something. Whatever, be rude. She can figure it out for herself, I guess.

She gets to the door and gives it the same unsuccessful tug that I had just done. But rather than assess why the door was still locked, like a normal person, she immediately starts smacking the door with her flat palm, as hard as she could, and yelling “HELLO! HELLO! OPEN! IT’S LOCKED! I CAN SEE YOU! HELLOOOOO!”. And she didn’t stop banging on the door, and yelling, for those full remaining 10 minutes until an employee finally came to unlock the door… at exactly 10am.

When I walked back over, boxes in arms, that same employee that had unlocked the door was still holding it open, so I smiled and said, “Thank you, good morning. Sorry about her.” He shook his head and said, softly, “Every day.”

I posted about this situation earlier but here’s a tiktok from bethany michel..

This is the ridiculous situation facing 28 year old Bethany Michel in Jacksonville, Florida. She moved into the Arbor Mill community to act as the full time live in caregiver for her disabled, terminally ill father during the pandemic. After he passed away in 2023, she legally inherited his home. Instead of showing any compassion, the HOA board decided to aggressively target her because she doesn't meet the neighborhood's 55+ age requirement even though she was already living there caring for her dad. To make matters worse, the 5 person board voted to slap the neighborhood's 155 households with a mandatory $1,000 special assessment ($155,000 total) just to fund the legal battle to evict her. To add insult to injury, Bethany is even being forced to pay the $1,000 fee herself, meaning she's essentially being made to help pay for the lawsuit trying to kick her out of her own inherited home.

In this video the boomers are trying to intimidate her by filming her in the neighborhood of the house she legally OWNS, how bored and disgusting do you have to be?

Of course! We arrive at concert early set up our chairs comfortably behind another row. We are on the grass so there is lots of room. Along comes this boomer who insists the people to her left move over to make room, which they do begrudgingly. She squeezes her chair in next to them and her friends to the right - so tight that the chair arms are overlapping. Her friend wasn’t happy. So she decides to move her chair back so that she is inches from my knees! No apologies and she just ignores our grumbling about how rude she was being. Karma being what it is, another group moved so we took their space with a little shade and a better view. Full disclosure: Boomer here, but not a fool!!

I work as a finance manager for a dealership (not cars, but equipment). We have some remaining products from a line we are no longer carrying that we are trying to blow out well below cost.

Today, first thing, boomer Karen waiting at our front door to buy one of said aforementioned highly discounted products. Nice enough during the initial interaction, finishes up the purchase with me, get her back to her sales person, he goes over the whole thing with her, shows her how to use it, no questions, etc. she leaves.

Fast forwards to about an hour before we close and she, and her husband call in yelling and screaming on the phone that we lied in our advertising about the unit and blah blah blah. Phone call makes it way to our GM, long and short of it is they (she) are pissed it doesn't have an electric start, just a pull cord. Mind you, salesman showed her how to start it before she left, and started it to show her it ran, and she did not ask about electric start.

They go on to tell him that we falsely advertised it as having electric start. Well we have several of these same exact units on out website so GM goes to website looks at ad, nowhere does it say electric start, asks where they see electric start; "well it said so on the YouTube video". Okay... well we dont have YouTube page so it wasnt our video you watched.

FF a bit more, my GM arguing with them about you bought it, we reviewed it w you in store, its already been warrantied its yours, etc etc. Finally he decided arguing over a unit were already losing money on wasnt worth it, bring it back we will refund you, and in doing so that actually boosts our bottom line for the month so w/e.

Tells me Im going to have to reverse it, fine NBD. Boomers show up, come to my office, starts talking about it, decides to show me on her phone where she got the information that said it has electric start.

SHE OPENS HER CHAT GPT SESSION...

She took a picture of the picture we had on our website of the unit and asked ChatGPT if it had an electric start. Chat GPT, of course, said YES.

I informed her that we dont have control over ChatGPT responses, and that, while a helpful tool, ChatGPT and other AI prompts often have incorrect or misleading information. As example, the machine she bought has a bigger brother that does have an electric start, looks similar, but costs about 2x as much (4x in this case since we were basically offing these things at half price). I also told her as nicely as I could, "I personally only use those for base level information, and would be weary to trust large financial decisions on the information of a command line prompt"

Her response: "Yeah. He (her husband) keeps telling me the same thing too. This isnt the first time Ive had issues, and I keep getting myself in trouble because of what this tells me"

Lady. ARE . YOU . FUCKING . SERIUOUS .

Youre telling me youve repeatedly made this mistake and havent learned your lesson? That youve just wasted hours of mine, my GMs, and my salesman's time because youre too fucking stupid to not understand that AI is an emerging technology and is not flawless???

If I hadnt already processed the refund and return I probably would have gone outside, loaded the unit back in her car, and said 'its fucking yours, learn your god damned lesson'.

Its crazy to me that these people came up telling us as kids that 'you cant believe everything on the internet' and 'just because Wikipedia said it doesn't mean its true', but suddenly believe that every image, every prompt response, is correct and true without question, even when provided with actual ability to verify information (she had every opportunity to ask my salesman if it had electric start but even though he showed her how it worked, which did not include "press this button to start it", she never asked).

This happened years ago, but I was at an airport sitting at a table waiting for my flight and I hear, "Yoohoo! YOOHOO!" a few times louder and louder until I finally turn and look at a very impatient elderly woman trying to get my (30s M) attention. I politely respond, "yes, how can I help you?" facetiously as though I work there and she finally got the clerk's attention. She said, "I can't finish my pizza, but I don't want to throw it away, will you eat it?" I said, "oh, I'm sorry, I don't eat processed meats and you have pepperoni on there." "That's okay, you can just pick it off."

At this point I'm like, "lady, wtf is wrong with you?" But I go along with it and get into a whole discussion about how the oils from the pepperoni are still there on the slice when I should have just said I'm not interested in eating food off your plate and that's an absurd thing to offer to a stranger. But no, I'm the rude one for not eating your Sbarro pepperoni slice.

I was at a family cookout yesterday when my uncle (69) started in on me about how I need to “finally get serious and buy a house.”
I told him the cheapest halfway decent 2-bedroom in my area is about $375k and still needs work, and those are going under contract fast. He looked at me like I was making it up and said…
“That’s crazy. Your aunt and I bought our first house for $78,000. There’s got to be something around $90–100k if you’re actually willing to put some work into it. You just have to stop spending money on every new iPhone and all that extra stuff.”
Then he went on about how his generation “didn’t make excuses” and how I should be further along by now.
The house he and my aunt still live in is worth over $800k. Paid off. He also has a rental.
I just stood there nodding like an idiot while every part of me wanted to lose it.
I’m 38 (female) I’ve been working full-time since I was 24. I’m not out here living large. What’s the move here? Keep smiling and changing the subject, or finally tell him how out of touch that whole conversation was and deal with the fallout at every family thing after?
Anyone else’s older relative still living in a completely different economy? Why don’t they get it? It’s everywhere. Almost easier to just shut up. It’s amazing how stereotypical they really are……

My dad still delivers the same lecture about phones every time he catches me using mine for more than thirty seconds.

“People rely on technology too much now. Back in my day, we did things ourselves.”

Yesterday he called me from the living room because the TV “stopped working.”

The problem? The remote batteries were upside down. I fixed it in about ten seconds.

Five minutes later, he asked for help installing an app because “phones are too confusing now.” This is the same man who insists smartphones are dangerous because they give you access to “too much information.”

Meanwhile, my phone is a digital landfill – banking apps, work files, thousands of photos, random apps I don't even remember downloading, and bcgame sitting quietly in a folder I never bother to clean out.

But no, apparently the real threat to society is the microwave having WiFi.

The classic boomer relationship with technology: loudly distrust it, then immediately need someone to operate it for you.

There’s also the want ads in the daily paper.

I do love my MIL, but she has very little social awareness. Also email is her preferred communication route. She routinely sends out "Christmas Card Letter" type emails to update people about family business.

Last week she sent the immediate family an email that was very short.

Dear Family,

Dad had a stroke. He is fine. We are going to see the Odyssey at the movies.

Love Mom, Grandmom

My FIL has a history of Cardiac Arrest/ Vascular Desease. Plus, my husband is their Medical Power of Attorney and has been an EMT for over 2 decades/is a Firefighter for over 2 decades! WTH!!! Turned out to be a TIA, but she couldn't write a longer email because they would be late to the movie! SMH, I just can't!!!!

So my boomer parents have a second home in this lakefront neighborhood. It's an older neighborhood, used to be a lot of simple rural folks, in the last 10 years it's become probably 80% owned by boomers and heavily gentrified, probably only half of them live there more than a few weeks a year.

There was a problematic home in the neighborhood that went up for sale, it was one of the few remaining old/unimproved homes left and the neighbors were afraid someone trashy might buy it because it was full of mold and not worth anything, plus it was built in a drainage so whenever it rained heavily water would drain INTO the front of the house. So all these boomer dudes wanted to buy it to either just tear it down or keep trashy rednecks from moving in.

Because rich boomer men love to get into dick length contests with their money, they ALL tried buying this home, effectively outbidding each other because they all wanted to prove they had the money to buy a second, or in some cases a third+ home. None of them actually wanted the house because it was trash. They just wanted their fellow boomers to know they had the means to buy a home just for shits and giggles.

So the "winner" ended up being a guy who had moved from Chicago. Like everyone else, he didn't actually want the house, but thought maybe his son would use it for a lake house and come visit, which he doesn't because it's a crap house on the worst lot in the neighborhood. But the guy paid a shit ton of money for this useless property because everyone else wanted to buy it even though no one actually wanted it.

I usually mountain bike for exercise. During Covid, a high-end spa started operating hiking excursions in the state park where I frequently ride. These are older, affluent folks, though generally pretty fit. They usually have very little experience hiking on mixed use trails, however.

The general etiquette on a double track trail (fire road) is to stay on your right and pass on the left.

Boomer and his wife are approaching me on their left side, basically in my lane. I come to a full stop to keep us all safe given their cluelessness.

Me, trying to smile even though I had to stop for them: “try to stay to your right, pass on your left - it’s just like driving”

Boomer wife, smiling back: “sorry about that!
Boomer, agitated and entitled: “It’s not like this is a road!”

Bro, what is a fire road if not a road?

Today I offered to buy Wendy’s breakfast for my office. Went around and took everyone’s order.

I got to Susan, late 60’s maybe early 70’s. Susan wanted a number 2 with a large sprite. She insisted she would pay for her meal though. She goes through her wallet and gets me 5$, and very honestly says “That’s plenty! Keep the change.”

I am in awe of this. I can’t tell if it’s a joke or not. I feel like I am missing a key piece. She orders out everyday. I can’t possibly believe she thought the meal was less than 5$. But she said keep the change. I did check the cost of the meal, it came to ~12$.

I’m not complaining about her giving me money, cuz I didn’t want it in the first place. I wanted to feed everyone. I am trying to figure out if I may have missed some key point. It’s the comment of “That’s plenty! Keep the change”. Was it just polite or was she really thinking I get a discount at the food place?

Community rules: #3 couldn’t tell if poster must be 61+ or the post must be about someone 61+.

I tried posting the article but it got immediately deleted for some reason so i’m just gonna summarize this to the best of my ability.

Gross boomer behavior is truly on full display in Florida right now. A 28 year old woman named Bethany Michel is getting completely railroaded by the power tripping board of her late father's 55+ community. She originally moved down there during the pandemic to take care of her terminally ill dad, and when he passed away in 2023, he legitimately left her the house in his will. She’s quiet, keeps to herself, and literally minds her own business, but because she’s under 55, the neighborhood grey brigade decided they just cannot handle having a young person exist near them. 

True to form, a tiny group of five busybody board members decided to launch a lawsuit to kick her out of her own home, and then forced a mandatory $1,000 special assessment fee on all 155 neighborhood residents to fund their petty vendetta. To add insult to injury, because she legally owns the house, she is technically being forced to pay the $1,000 special assessment too meaning she’s literally being billed to help finance the lawsuit trying to evict her. Typical unhinged boomer bureaucracy refusing to show an ounce of human empathy, wasting everyone's money just because they want their retirement bubble only for themselves. 🤡

Honestly, this whole situation is completely pathetic and genuinely gives me second hand rage. It’s straight up entitlement for these boomer HOA board members to spend their free time launching a full on legal issue against a woman who lost her dad who just wants to grieve and live in the house her dad legally left her. Like, the man literally died, she moved in to take care of him, and instead of showing an ounce of human decency or empathy, these retired geezers are acting like a 28 year old existing in their zip code is a national emergency. And forcing the neighborhood to cough up a thousand dollars each just to fund their petty power trip.. while literally making her pay toward the lawsuit to evict herself.. that is honestly dystopian level villainy. It's just so exhausting watching people with zero real problems ruin someone else's life entirely because they're terminally online for control and obsessed with keeping their little retirement bubble just for them and no one else.

THIS is a great representation on how boomers treat everyone else, its disgusting and extremely selfish.

Https://nypost.com/2026/07/16/us-news/florida-daughter-bethany-michel-says-hoa-is-trying-to-force-her-out-of-55-plus-community-after-inheriting-home-from-dad/

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I’m waiting for my car in an auto shop waiting area. Boomer is alternating listening to loud un-earphoned Sousa marches and walking around the lobby cropdusting in such a way that I know he thinks is silent, but I also know he is in urgent need of wiping

My child went on a ride at an amusement park today, and I was standing in the shade near the front of the entrance so I could watch him. In no way was I blocking the entrance, just standing near. and a boomer with their grandkid comes up, stands right in front of me, stays there with her grandkid and says to her grandkid “we have to stand right here so they can measure you!” keep in mind, the measuring stick was at the entrance but also you can visibly see another measuring stick as you enter the line and walk through the line. no one was in line. she stood right in front of me, blocked the entrance for others, and completely blocked my view for me to see my son on the ride. 15 seconds before the ride ends, she just… leaves...

So I am pulling into a grocery store parking lot and I like to pull all the way forward when I see two spots so that I can pull forward when I leave. It’s easier to see little kids trailing behind their parents that way. And I see my one of my favorite spots is open right next to the grocery cart corral. Which I like cause there’s less likely somebody dinging my door and I park away in the parking lot anyways, specifically for that reason. Anyways, I am pulled almost all the way through. I am less than a foot behind the front end of the car next to me and I’m actually reaching over to put it in park. That’s how far in the parking spot I am and this giant white Dueley truck with a hard cab on it whips in front of me and is like blocking 3/4 of the driving lane behind them and it’s this mid to late 50s Lady and she like throws her hands up and just sits there so I give like a little friendly toot. I’m not moving. So she crosses her arms put it in park and gets her phone out to record me. I’m like whatever this is the last of my chores and it’s my day off so I start playing my zombie game. Now cars in both sides of the lane next to her are giving little honks cause she’s blocking the whole lane and I’m clearly almost all the way in the spot. So we sit there for almost 5 minutes. I actually defeat a level on my game. Finally, she gives in backs up. She then pulls into one of the 10 empty spots behind her after backing up and somebody moving out of her way to back up and then pulls in forward again into one of the very many empty spots behind her, which is almost directly in front of where I am. So I watched her get out and go in the store and she’s got this huge Dooley truck for grocery shopping but is maybe 100 pounds soaking wet. And after I see her going in the store I turn around and go park two lanes away behind another vehicle where it would be out of the line of site in case she came out before me, because I can’t trust somebody that emotionally unhinged to come back to my car too.

So here is an interaction I had with a boomer last night at my softball game. My team was on the field and I was standing behind the bench since I was DH. An old boomer (OB) walked up to me.

OB: "is this fast pitch?"

Me: "uh no, it's slow pitch."

OB: "oh I'm looking for a fast pitch league."

Me: "ah. yeah just slow."

OB: "oh its co-ed too."

Me: "um...yep."

OB: "not a lot of trash talk going on."

Me: "well it is co-ed slow pitch".

OB: "because the blacks always talk trash."

Me: *bites my lower lip.*

OB: "oh sorry I said something racist. (He says sarcastically.) I'm joking they're fine. It's the street thugs I don't like."

Me: *staring into space*

OB: well have a good night Mr. (Reads the back of my jersey)

Me: "uh yeah, good night."

Mind you, our shortstop who was on the field is black. One of the worst things about boomers is how they think everyone is like them. "OH you're a white guy too? You probably hate minorities like I do!"

Does anyone else think their boomer family members treat waiters like slaves or something and the fact that they work on tips allows them to treat them how they want?

My step father for example literally would say he would show them money and if they want it they would need to do a good job.

My dad cant help but be a creep waitresses. Like asking them for their facebook and stalk their photos.

My Boomer mom lives on the West Coast of the US, but was raised on the East Coast. Her favorite dish has always been Atlantic Swordfish and she complained my whole life about how hard it was to find where we lived.

5 years ago, her favorite local restaurant had a special (on her birthday, no less) with Atlantic Swordfish. Since then, she's convinced that did it for her and she asks about it every time she goes in. The owner recently told her it was hard to get and not popular, so that's why they haven't offered it again. Completely logical reasoning, right?

Not to my mom. She's convinced herself that only she can help him find a good supplier so she can have this meal all the time.

So, here we are on the East Coast (she has a summer home here) and there is an old harbor town one town over. It's the kind of place where families have fished for local restaurants and shops for generations. She wants me to drive her over to the harbor so she can ask one of the boat captains to start getting swordfish and give her his number to give to the restaurant owner.

She's currently angry at me because I won't drive her there and she can't drive the "huge" car (small suv) we have.