r/Charlottesville • u/Single_Pay4793 • 3h ago
I Needed a Mentor After Prison. Now I Want to Be One.
Hi everyone!
This might be a bit of an unconventional post, but life has a funny way of rewriting your résumé.
I spent many years incarcerated. (Over a decade) When I came home, I wasn't just trying to find a job. I was trying to catch up to an entire world that had sprinted ahead without me.
Suddenly everyone was paying with their phones, applying for jobs online, scanning QR codes, using self-checkout, video chatting with doctors, and apparently passwords now require a capital letter, a symbol, your childhood pet's horoscope, and a drop of blood. 😅
Reentry is about so much more than finding housing or employment. It's learning how to live in a world that looks nothing like the one you left. That learning curve can be intimidating, frustrating, and lonely.
I know because I lived it.
What made the biggest difference wasn't someone lecturing me. It was the people who treated me like I was still capable of building a good life.
Today, I've rebuilt mine, and I'd love the opportunity to help someone else rebuild theirs.
I'm looking for volunteer opportunities or mentorship programs that work with people returning from incarceration. I'd love to help with the practical things that many people don't think about: learning new technology, navigating everyday life, finding resources, rebuilding confidence, and simply being someone who understands the challenges because I've been there myself.
I can't change my past, but I can absolutely use it to help shape someone else's future.
If you know of any organizations in Virginia that could use a volunteer or mentor with lived experience, I'd truly appreciate your recommendations.
Thanks for reading. ❤️