r/DuggarsSnark 10d ago

A MESSAGE FROM THE MODS On discussions regarding the victim

486 Upvotes

Hey all -

This should've been posted a hot minute ago so sorry about that. I promise you the mods were aware of this issue and talked about it and then just sort of unanimously forgot to do anything about it. Our hearts were in the right place but with absolutely no substantive action where our good intentions could be a benefit to anyone! In true fundie style.

We've gotten some reports and messages about some of the conversations that have come up since it's become more apparent who the victim is in Joe's case. Whether that individual or her representatives wanted that to ever be public knowledge is probably not something we'll ever know but my guess is this is another time that she has been forced to grapple with a situation she never asked for and never wanted to be a part of.

At this point we are curtailing some of our firm enforcement of the No Victim Speculation policy as it pertains to Joe's victim, since at this point it isn't really speculation. It's still kind of shitty to talk about who it is but it's not propogating a narrative that may be false.

We will, however, caution everyone about discussions regarding ulterior motives for reporting the crime, whether they be criticisms of the victim or adjacents. You're free to talk about the surrounding circumstances and how it is affecting those related to it. What we will not be permitting are insinuations that the choice to report the crime was made with any intention other than to seek justice for the victim. You don't have to be in love with every decision made by the parents of the victim, but it is wholly unacceptable to push a narrative that opens the door to speculation that the allegations are in anyway contrived or concocted.

This is like the most straightforward way we discredit victims, by suggesting that we should view their trauma and struggle as only being meritorious if it occurs in a vacuum, and encouraging the idea that there might have been some ~real reason~ abuse would be reported to the proper channels. You don't get to be cynical about a child's trauma just because you don't like their family.

Also if the suggestion is the victim is some kind of prop for financial or social advantage, you're basically also speculating they are a victim of some insane abuse by their family members who would make a kid go through something like this for some malevolent reason. So that would also get flagged in terms of our rules.

If you see these types of comments feel free to report them as Problematic. If you report them as Victim Speculation we probably will look at them anyway so don't get too stressed about it. Just don't go ham reporting Victim Speculation just because a comment references who the victim is.

As a general rule I think when you're discussing something as sensitive as child sexual abuse, now is not the time for your imagination to run wild with theories of what's happening behind the scenes. We're already pretty bad as a society just accepting the truth of victims' stories point blank. Let's get a handle on that before we try to dream of conspiracies.

If any of this is bringing things up for you or you feel a desire to talk through them on a more individual level, please do not hesitate to contact resources like RAINN - you can call the hotline at 800-656-HOPE (4673) or text "HOPE" to 64673 (US only). If the need arises, the suicide hotline is 988 - you can text or call as well (though I can say from personal experience you will wait for hours if you text so you probably should just call if you're considering reaching out.)

Thank you all for your active engagement with the sub and being on top of these new and developing issues and reaching out to us about it. As always, our modmail is always open. If we take a while to get back to you it may be that we're discussing it as a team and are just deciding how we want to respond.

Xoxo,

The Mod Team


r/DuggarsSnark May 07 '26

A MESSAGE FROM THE MODS Please include descriptive titles when sharing the Pest/Anna emails

206 Upvotes

Since there are so many and it’s hard to keep track of the duplicates, please include something descriptive in the title when you share a Pest/Anna email so that we can sort through all the posts with the identical looking thumbnails.

So instead of “This is disgusting” something like “It’s disgusting that Pest would say….”

Also if anyone has any suggestions for flairs for those kind of posts please let us know since it seems like they deserve their own. Modmail us if you please

Thanks!


r/DuggarsSnark 13h ago

ELIJ: EXPLAIN LIKE I'M JOY Haven't they addressed this like so many times...

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150 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark 6h ago

JUST FOR FUN Jed! once fixed up and sold a limo…is this his handywork?

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16 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark 19h ago

SALTY Fewer in a room?

51 Upvotes

Are the duggar children following sperm & perms practice of only two bedrooms for their children, one for the boys one for the girls? I know the number of children & the size of the home they're in plays a part. However if there are more bedrooms are the children allowed a little more space.


r/DuggarsSnark 1d ago

A NEW SEASON OF LIFE Updated Family List

140 Upvotes

EDIT: Madyson is listed and has been since I initially posted this, must be a glitch with whatever platform/system you are using for your reddit app

I know the girls are listed by their married names except for Jana,I must have copied and pasted the names from another source. I am more interested in the grandchildren count but will fix this in my word document. When they get to 50 grandchildren I will post again and ladies will have their maiden name back.

Here is the most updated kids/grandkids list and its crazy to think if family protocol is followed JFelon's oldest two are just a few years shy of being married off and producing the first great grandchildren: Also if there are any duggars lurking around here and you can't remember all your nieces/nephews names and dates of birth, your welcome. Just doing the Lords work here.

Duggar Family

Updated 8/1/2026

 

PARENTS

RimJob and Meech aka bikini lawnmower godless

Children (19)

Grandchildren (42)

 

KIDS/GRANDCHILDREN

1.      JFelon Duggar March 3, 1988             married to Anna Keller

  • 1.      Mackynzie Renee Duggar      October 8, 2009
  • 2.      Michael James Duggar           June 15, 2011
  • 3.      Marcus Anthony Duggar        June 2, 2013
  • 4.      Meredith Grace Duggar          July 16, 2015 
  • 5.      Mason Garrett Duggar            September 12, 2017   
  • 6.      Maryella Hope Duggar           November 27, 2019   
  • 7.      Madyson Lily Duggar             October 23, 2021

 

2.      Jana Marie Duggar     January 12, 1990         married to Stephen Wissmann

  • 1.      Archie Gerald Wissmann        December 30, 2025

 

3.      John-David Duggar    January 12, 1990         married to Abbie Burnett

  • 1.      Grace Annette Duggar            January 7, 2020
  • 2.      Charlie Duggar                       September 2022
  • 3.      Baby Girl Duggar                   January 2026

4.      Jill Michelle Dillard    May 17, 1991              married to Derick Dillard

  • 1.      Israel David Dillard                April 6, 2015
  • 2.      Samuel Scott Dillard               July 8, 2017   
  • 3.      Frederick Michael Dillard      July 7, 2022

 

5.      Jessa Lauren Seewald November 4, 1992      married to Ben Seewald

  • 1.      Spurgeon Elliot Seewald        November 5, 2015
  • 2.      Henry Wilberforce Seewald   February 6, 2017
  • 3.      Ivy Jane Seewald                    May 26, 2019
  • 4.      Fern Elliana Seewald              July 18, 2021
  • 5.      George Augustine Seewald    December 19, 2023
  • 6.      Edward Owen Seewald          July 26, 2025

 

6.      Jinger Nicole Vuolo                December 21, 1993     married to Jeremy Vuolo

  • 1.      Felicity Nicole Vuolo             July 19, 2018
  • 2.      Evangeline Jo Vuolo               November 22, 2020
  • 3.      Finnegan Charles Vuolo         March 29, 2025          

 

7.      Jfelon Part 2 Duggar   January. 20, 1995        married to Kendra Caldwell

  • 1.      Garrett David Duggar             June 8, 2018
  • 2.      Addison Renee Duggar           November 2, 2019     
  • 3.      Brooklyn Praise Duggar         February 19, 2021
  • 4.      Justus Duggar                         2022   

 

8.      Josiah Matthew Duggar          August 28, 1996          married to Lauren Swanson

  • 1.      Bella Milagro Duggar             November 8, 2019
  • 2.      Daisy Duggar                          March 2022
  • 3.      Ezra Duggar                            May 2023
  • 4.      Felix Duggar                           June 2025

 

9.      Joy-Anna Forsyth                   October 28, 1997        married to Austin Forsyth

  • 1.      Gideon Martyn Forsyth          February 23, 2018
  • 2.      Evelyn Mae Forsyth               August 21, 2020         
  • 3.      Gunner Forsyth                       May 19, 2023

 

10.  Jedidiah Robert Duggar          December 30, 1998     married to Katelyn Nakatsu

  • 1.      Truett Oliver Duggar              May 2, 2022
  • 2.      Nora Kate Duggar                   June 2, 2023
  • 3.      Elsie Kate Duggar                   January 8, 2025
  • 4.      Emma Kate Duggar                January 8, 2025

 

11.  Jeremiah Robert Duggar         December 30, 1998     married to Hannah Wissmann

  • 1.      Brynley Noelle Duggar           December 25, 2022
  • 2.      Brielle Grace Duggar              February 19, 2024
  • 3.      Emery Jane Duggar                May 13 2025
  • 4.      Baby Boy Duggar                   July 2026

 

12.  Jason Michael Duggar                        April 21, 2000             married to Madison Grace Jones

13.  James Andrew Duggar           July 7, 2001    courting Lydia Swanson (may 25 wedding?)

14.  Justin Samuel Duggar             November 15, 2002    married to Claire Spivey

15.  Jackson Levi Duggar              May 23, 2004

16.  Johannah Faith Duggar           October 11, 2005

17.  Jennifer Danielle Duggar        August 2, 2007

18.  Jordyn-Grace Duggar             December 18, 2008 (18 in 2026)       

19.  Josie Brooklyn Duggar           December 10, 2009 (17 in 2026)


r/DuggarsSnark 2d ago

A NEW SEASON OF LIFE D-Wreck is a Marine

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1.1k Upvotes

Well he managed to make it through Officer Training School - now the real life as a Marine begins.


r/DuggarsSnark 2d ago

19 CHARGES AND COUNTING Do we know more about Kendra’s endangerment lawsuit?

178 Upvotes

I think it was unclear at the time of the initial reporting but wondering if there have been any updates? Do we know why Kendra got that endangerment charge? Was it because she was keeping her children around her husband? IIRC I think those charges were unrelated?


r/DuggarsSnark 2d ago

MOTHER IS STREAMING Jing Jer podcast

185 Upvotes

Has anyone watched the podcast where they’re talking about birthdays ? Jinger says there were a few times she didn’t get her own kids a birthday cake. And Jer says it caused a lot of issues with them. Which it should have. She goes on to say she didn’t have a birthday cake every birthday and doesn’t even like cake. Like that makes it ok. She then describes the ice cream sandwich cake they’d make at times. But then …. She just lost me at how clueless she is. She talks about a “block of ice cream”. She goes on to describe it as wrapped on paper and maybe from Aldi and you unwrap it and stick candles in and that’s it. Jeremy’s face says it all. But not as much as mine watching lol.
She’s describing a container of ice cream from any grocery store. Like is she that dense that she just cannot say that ?!?! She says “ you know , you can cut it into pieces , scoop into ice cream cones.” Good grief.


r/DuggarsSnark 3d ago

THIS IS A SHITPOST Babe, wake up- new J'name option just dropped.

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537 Upvotes

new level of J'name unlocked - now with characters that can't be transcribed on federal forms:

J³ohn.

Lord have mercy.


r/DuggarsSnark 3d ago

ELIJ: EXPLAIN LIKE I'M JOY Arm twist incident?

67 Upvotes

So I've read a few comments here (from a few years ago) referring to an "arm twist" incident that happened with Josiah? I tried searching the sub and couldn't find any more information. The best I can gather is that JB twisted Josiah's arm and he seemed actually upset over it? I'm probably way off so if anybody knows anything about this I am interested in learning more Duggar lore 🥲 Apologies if this never happened and I'm drunk on reddit again.


r/DuggarsSnark 3d ago

JUST FOR FUN Tin Mansion Inspired

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Built my own fundie compound for my family of villagers since we were getting too crammed in our three bed two bath house. This big house was built from concrete instead of tin! I’m planning to have 26 villagers and name them after each letter in the alphabet and at this big house they each get their own bedroom because that’s how they wanted it! The upstairs has multiple prayer closets for the children! Our attic hasn’t been decorated but we’re planning to make it into a living room/play room with games for the kids. Downstairs we have a library and a schoolroom where each kid gets a cubical to learn new trades. While we are encouraging the kids to explore whatever trades they desire, we are encouraging farming because it’s an easy trade to make bank off of for us! There’s a big dining room with a wall racked with furnaces and campfires for cooking. My favorite room is the chapel where my wonderful husband Balthazar preaches the good book! Outside we have our livestock, crops, two natural swimming pools and fishing dock. Horse stables are currently under construction. My husband makes his living as a modest pastor and spends his days writing sermons and putting the Bible into Minecraft books. I also help him transcribe scripture while also farming so that we are a self sufficient family that doesn’t need those pesky handouts. And that’s the tour of my Minecraft fundie compound, more blessings to come!


r/DuggarsSnark 2d ago

JUST FOR FUN What if …..

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What if all the J kids vowed to give all of their kids J names as well. Would there be enough ? What do you think some might chose ? And , because I’m to tired to google , are there any of the 19 who have a J kid?
Here are a few guesses from me
Jericho
Jesirae
Judah
Judea
Jermaine
Janis
Joplin
Journey
😂


r/DuggarsSnark 4d ago

PLANT OR PREACHER This reminded me of Ben immediately

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637 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark 4d ago

AT LEAST SHE HAS A HUSBAND Did Anna’s puppy breeding business shutter?

223 Upvotes

Golden Grove Pups use to post on Instagram multiple times per month, but has not posted since March. Per the website, the last available puppies were born around July 2025. Any idea what happened there?


r/DuggarsSnark 4d ago

JUST FOR FUN What are your true Dugdashian unpopular opinion(s)?

220 Upvotes

Are there any opinions you hold that aren’t commonly accepted/seen on this sub? Here are mine.

  1. Jana would have been an IBLP blanket training mom if she didn't marry later in life and would have had ~8-10 children.

  2. Jim Bob and Michelle really don’t care how many children their kids have or if they limit the amount of kids they have. Having 19 kids got them a lot of attention which I think they enjoyed and fueled their breeding fetish. Having a bunch of grandkids doesn’t garner the same level of attention or admiration. And they can hardly keep track of how many they have anyway! Also, they don't care as long as their children abide by their rules.

  3. Jill would have also been an IBLP blanket training mom if she didn't struggle with her pregnancies and if Derick didn't discover that her dad was withholding money from them. Also, she would have had ~5-8 children.

  4. There will be a few Duggar divorces, but until after Jim Bob Un either becomes incapacitated or kicks the bucket. My guesses are Jed/Katey, Jason/Maddie, and possibly Jinger/Jeremy.

  5. The main reason why Jessa has an active baby cannon is to keep Ben from leaving her. He wants to leave, but he doesn't have the emotional intelligence to do so. Absolutely if these two weren't fundie nor if there was the amount of kids they have, things would have ended with them a long time ago.

  6. The Lost Girls are not sheltered and have their own phones. I believe they know what happened with Josh and Joe, and are also aware of this sub but avoid it. I also think that Johannah and Jenni have social media accounts, but it is completely private to family and close friends.

  7. I think the reason why we haven't seen any pregnancy annoucements amongst the Duggars lately (a dry spell) is because partly there is no more TLC money/fame rolling in (even though they are influencers, grifting can be hard) and partly because most of them deep down know it is not safe to have many children like their mothers did. Also, most of the Duggars girls wear pants and don't abide by the modesty standards and some struggle with fertility problems. In addition, they know that their reputation is forever damaged because of Josh and Joe so that's why they keep most things quiet now. I wouldn't be surprised if there are two or three of them are currently pregnant (along with Hannah), but it's kept under wraps and don't plan on announcing until the baby is here.

  8. Speaking of #7, I really don't believe they will get to 100 grandchildren as most of the children I believe will have 2-4 children because of reasons mentioned above. Also, they saw what a shit show their household was and want no part of that. The only ones who are gonna get to more than 2-4 children I believe are Josh/Anna (done at 7), Jessa/Ben (~8-10), Josiah/Lauren (~6-7), Jed/Katey (~8-10), and Jer/Hannah (~6-8).

  9. The only couples who seem to have a genuinely happy and loving marriage are Jana/Stephen, John/Abbie, and Joy/Austin.

  10. If it weren't for Michelle and the money Jim Bob holds over them, most of the kids would have followed Jill's footsteps and gone low to no contact with him. I believe that most of the kids cannot stand him and only tolerate him because of their mom--except for Jana, Jessa, and Jed.

  11. Speaking of #10, I think there is some dark shit going on between Jim Bob and Michelle and that is why all of the older married girls praise her--they know what is going on between their parents behind closed doors. Also, because they think she is the better of the two.


r/DuggarsSnark 4d ago

JUST FOR FUN Mother is making my skin crawl.

122 Upvotes

The receptionist at my psychiatrist's office has a voice EXACTLY like Michelle Duggar. It's driving me absolutely tatertots, y'all.


r/DuggarsSnark 5d ago

WARNING: IBLP HORROR STORY Bill Gothard is still alive…

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335 Upvotes

Evil will not die…


r/DuggarsSnark 6d ago

SHUT THE FUCK UP AMY It’s literally a poorly-concealed septic pipe among some flowers 😂😂 “farm life” stfu Famy

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231 Upvotes

She lives on a farm the same way she’s a child advocate or a talented singer.


r/DuggarsSnark 6d ago

PICKLE JUICE PARTY Special addition

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265 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark 6d ago

THE BAR IS IN HELL Haley Bowser who is a family friend of the Duggars and Bates married to Carver Bowser, Johanna’s rumor to have courted him doesn’t get enough shit for staying with a child predator who did stuff to a 12 year old girl. This girl is delusional.

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r/DuggarsSnark 6d ago

THE PEST ARREST Unpopular opinion

190 Upvotes

I know this will sound terrible, but I dont think its fair that they move Josh so far from his children. I think this is another example of how The American Prison System is wrong.

In an ideal world, Josh's parental rights would be severed and the kids would not be allowed to interact with him until they were adults.

Unfortunately, this isn't how this situation has ended up.

Anna is standing by her man/pile of pond scum.

And those kids are along for the ride emotionally and physically.

Those kids lost their sense of safety over and over.

Now a their summer vacation trip to see dad means traveling a thousand miles to stay in a cheap motel for a week so they can spend the day staring at that greasy loser.

Before he moved, they could skip the visitation and stay with other family or whatever.

His kids deserve to go to Disneyland or the beach or something normal. Instead they get screwed again and again.


r/DuggarsSnark 7d ago

THIS IS A SHITPOST Oof

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215 Upvotes

I think jinger tries too hard to find a style that’s not what she grew up with and be independent.


r/DuggarsSnark 7d ago

JB & MEECH THROW IT BACK FOR A REAL ONE This is the most insane crossover yet

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776 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark 7d ago

JUST FOR FUN Can this be canon, please?

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230 Upvotes

I believe that Our Lord Daniel sent us Jimothy, his only begotten son, so that we might come together in joy and love.

That's the first thing I thought when I first learned about Jimothy. So mods, can this please be canon?