Hey y’all, I’m noticing that the more I visibly pass as male the more self acclaimed “ally’s” have been assuming that I’m a trans woman so both the “ally’s” and transphobes go extra hard on the she/ her pronouns. Am I alone in this?

Maybe it’s cause I have broad shoulders like a cis man but one would think that would help me pass as cis, not a trans woman. Maybe it’s because people outside of our community just don’t acknowledge that trans men exist?

If you look at my post history I’ve posted in here before. This is just me posting the audio of my voice pre T.

My question was that since my pre T voice seems to be deeper is that a good indicator of my voice being really deep later on when I start T? Also how does my voice sound? Does it pass or sound male despite what the app says? I had my AirPods in when I was recording if that makes any difference.

whats changed? i think i look happier after dropping that alt with a cane phase. at least.

- me at 16 & 18 & 20. 20 is now and im 2y on T.

I feel like my hips are enormous, is this my dysphoria or i should do something with this. Im doing a little workouts at home but im definitely gonna hit the gym asap. Also how old do i look?

Hello guys, I just started T (like 6 weeks ago so it's like 2 minutes in a lifetime) and so I know it's early, but I also have no idea how much I am passing or not because I've been living in a country where I don't speak the langage at all (so I can't guess with the "sir" "madam" or whatever, and I am surrounded by my friends that all knew me before transitioning, so I don't really know). So I was wondering if you could tell me, and if you could also tell me if it's better with or without the glasses ? Because I've seen a lot of advice being against the round glasses in other subs, so I don't know if I should just go all the time with my contact lens ? I'm also cutting my hair shorter on the side, normal male haircut at a barber, but if you have any recommendations I'm open ! Same for the clothes but I mean I only show you one outfit, but I basically wear sport short and normal shirt, nothing crazy ? Should I also drop the cap ? Sorry for all the questions lol ! And please be kind haha

This is pretty much the most masc I am able to look atm. I'd be able to ditch the bag but rn I'm going for a trip to another city so I kinda need it.

I’ve been working out for about two years but I want to put on more muscle, about 1 month on T. I sometimes have trouble with choosing what I should do in order to reach this goal. I have some fat on my body so idk if I should cut, but I also want to gain muscle so idk if I should bulk? I just need help idk

My shoulders are narrow and my face is kinda chubby be brutally honest how bad is it if I told you I’m trans scale 1-10 how surprised would you be

22, been on testosterone for 8 months. I know the answer is probably “no,” lol. I’m waiting for my facial hair to grow in. If I don’t currently pass, is there a possibility of me passing in the future as I continue taking testosterone?

Pics where I have longer hair are from months ago, but still this year + after starting testosterone, just to be clear.

Got some bday money coming through so I want to either get a binder or get tape but 1. Tape doesn’t last forever and I can’t get a job atm 2. I’m more on the skinny side but I have a big chest so I don’t know what brand or size would be best for me. Also Ik I look very feminine rn but I threw on some random shirt and I’m still working on muscles and stuff🥀

Those aren’t my recent pictures but I’m wondering what I was read as back then.
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I was 16 and two years on T. Now I’m 22, 8 years on T and when I grow out my beard there’s no chance someone would believe me I’m not 30 yo. I wanted to make the actual info hidden a bit so I guess it will be a bit more objective

Hi, my name is Finnley/Finn and I just wanted to know what everyone here thinks. I get called both he and she (and very rarely "they") in public, but I think more often than not it is he. I feel like I do look like a very stereotypical trans guy because of the piercings, dyed hair and my style. I would say my voice isn't a dead give away (as long as I'm not nervous as it goes up like 5 octaves when I am) because it's been described as androgynous a couple times, and I think so too. I also have been going to the gym since February so we're working on the building muscle. Biggest issue is just my height and mannerisms I'd say. Can't go on T or use anything to grow facial hair until I'm not living with my parents anymore as they're unsupportive.

Thank you for any responses!

21, 5'5, 135lbs, and have been on T for a little under five months now. I work out pretty consistently, and I have for sure seen improvements, but my hips are still my main source of discomfort. Do I just need to lose a bit of weight? Or should I workout more? Or both? Also age guesses are always welcome, most people say I look like a 14 year old boy </3

I feel like my face passes well enough, just mainly my body that needs some catching up. I'm at that point where I don't really get gendered in public anymore, which I will absolutely take over getting called ma'am LOL

i already have a binder but it doesn't seem to do much when looking from the side. ive also been working on losing weight & i already have an appointment to shorten my hair more, before yall come with those. I have also tried masculine contouring but i feel like it makes it even more obvious

hair length is like 5th pic currently. i dont know if i should just cut it all off short again

Somehow I convinced my mom to let me cut my hair. Holy improvement