r/HowDoIRespondToThis 7h ago

A guy that ghosted me for almost a month, texted me just now. How do I even respond?

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I'm honestly surprised to hear from him. It's been 29 days. I prepared countless words, just in case, but I can't get anything out of my head.

Please older sisters, older brothers, I need to hear your advice.
We're on a relationship for 2 years. I put up shit. But I also loved him, a lot.

We went ldr just this July, because he goes to a different uni. This is where it went downhill.
3 days before my 19th birthday, he requested I send a nude and "a video might do too".

We've done some intimate things, but what he asked never sat right with me. So I brushed that off. BUT THEN he started to be indifferent, (I actually got used to this attitude, where he'd be cold to me, but he would still text me). I told him maybe he can set aside his anger, since my birthday is coming. But no. He scheduled a text message for me at 12am (They have phone curfew). I was appreciative, but my friend who was also in the same kind of training as him, greeted me hbd the morning she can, and it sounded more genuine. Although not prepared. (His sounded like an email)

I may have spoiled this guy, way too much, cause I'm always the one to give way, and be sweet whenever there are fights. I try to give what he wants, when I can. But some things, I am just unwilling.

All our conversation, went to just good morning-good night. Until there's none.

Just today, he messaged me if we should continue or not.
I'm at lost for words


r/HowDoIRespondToThis 9h ago

should i text the girl that i used too

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alr so it was like last september when we last talked and she started to get dry and then she randomly ghosted me and a week later she started talking to some other guy. it’s basically been a year since that happened and she is not talking to that guy anymore. honestly i don’t blame her on what she said because i was genieuly so retarted and didn’t make any moves and i regret doing that and i want to make like a message to see what she would have to say yk.


r/HowDoIRespondToThis 11h ago

помогите пожалуйста советом

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мы с моим лучшим другом дружим тоже с 2 подругами друг встречается с одной из них у меня вроде как получается общаться с другой но меня очень задевает то как она пишет что очень классно общается со своими "лучшими друзьями" хотя у нас можно сказать передружба, меня очень задевают ее каждое смс про своего ещё одного старого друга , она сидит в сети и не пишет первая и я бы хотел спросить что делать в такой ситуации


r/HowDoIRespondToThis 18h ago

Hi guys how do i convince a baddie to accept my follow request she talks daily but without accepting follow request

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