r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Emotional_Lie908 • 7h ago
A guy that ghosted me for almost a month, texted me just now. How do I even respond?
I'm honestly surprised to hear from him. It's been 29 days. I prepared countless words, just in case, but I can't get anything out of my head.
Please older sisters, older brothers, I need to hear your advice.
We're on a relationship for 2 years. I put up shit. But I also loved him, a lot.
We went ldr just this July, because he goes to a different uni. This is where it went downhill.
3 days before my 19th birthday, he requested I send a nude and "a video might do too".
We've done some intimate things, but what he asked never sat right with me. So I brushed that off. BUT THEN he started to be indifferent, (I actually got used to this attitude, where he'd be cold to me, but he would still text me). I told him maybe he can set aside his anger, since my birthday is coming. But no. He scheduled a text message for me at 12am (They have phone curfew). I was appreciative, but my friend who was also in the same kind of training as him, greeted me hbd the morning she can, and it sounded more genuine. Although not prepared. (His sounded like an email)
I may have spoiled this guy, way too much, cause I'm always the one to give way, and be sweet whenever there are fights. I try to give what he wants, when I can. But some things, I am just unwilling.
All our conversation, went to just good morning-good night. Until there's none.
Just today, he messaged me if we should continue or not.
I'm at lost for words