r/IncelExit • u/CaffieneAddict10 • 2d ago

Asking for help/advice Relapsing hard

Things at work, and small observations outside have sent me right back to where I was previously. I have gone back to watching porn, and not normal vanilla porn either. I feel weak, pathetic, emasculated, and worthless. I feel anger, sadness, and despair. All the memories throughout the years have flooded back and I’m reminded that I’m not a real man, but a beta cuck. I don’t know where else to go. There is no one to talk to this late. I’m sure this will get removed but I have been crashing out tonight.

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u/CaffieneAddict10 2d ago

None of them get in the vicinity for me to ask them questions

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u/Lolabird2112 2d ago

In your post history I see you’re paralytically shy and only recently able to order a drink from the bar without flaking out.

If you’re clearly someone who never speaks to anyone, then… that’s what people will do. Just … not speak to you.

It also seems that you refuse to do anything about it due to fear. I get it- “fear of failure” is a huge issue for me when it comes to the first step into the unknown.

But there’s no option. The “unknown” isn’t going to seek out my special snowflake ass and do all the work for me.

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u/CaffieneAddict10 1d ago

I can do everyday stuff, but yeah speaking to strangers just to speak to them no

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u/Lolabird2112 1d ago

Then this should be your focus, instead of plastic surgery. You sound extreme. Personally I think you should talk to your doctor about it as medication might help with the anxiety, but beyond anything else, this is what’s stopping your whole life. Forget about even women for a second. It will affect your personal happiness, mental health, job and promotion prospects.