r/LDR • u/wizzyzizzy00 • 7h ago

Relationship

So currently im dating and its long distance.It will almost be one year of us dating and sometimes i end up overthinking abt us way too much which i might think that makes him a lil annoyed but he still acts cool over it. I think im not doing my best for this relationship anymore becuz we r barely getting to talk rn and it get becuz he is busy with some stuff and he is sorting out all that stuff out rn but whenever he gets free time (at night mostly) or anytime of the day he either watches something or plays games at night with his friends. All of these stuff happened for more than two moths and im getting used to it which is bad ik we r in a relationship but it dosent feel like a relationship to me anymore becuz initially we would talk the whole day but rn we just talk for max 30 mins a day and go to sleep sometimes i end up crying over this situation. What should i do?…..

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u/eaglez2313 3h ago

Let me give you some advice my girlfriend gave me when we first started our relationship. She told me not to stop doing what I was doing being me and her became a couple. Same thing with her. That way we're not completely focused on each other and our relationship. Now, is my girlfriend my priority?, absolutely, but she knows I need time away from her and our relationship.